I heard the other day, someone say Well they are nice now but you didnt know them 10 years ago when they were abusive.... They continued to talk negatively about what the person had done years ago. Have you not let the past go? Remember that many of us change. Many of us change for the better because we see that what we have done in the past is no longer acceptable. We recognize that hurting others is NOT the way to make us feel better anymore. So we try to change for the better and many of us succeed and no longer do what we once did. Would you want someone to only think of you from what you had done in the distant past, especially when you have changed for the better? WE are more alike than different! Give the same respect to others, accept their NEW ways if they are indeed better. How long do you want to live in the past only seeing their old actions? Ask yourself what you are getting out if living in the past and not letting go? Do you get pity from others? Do you get sympathy? Do you get support? Do you get comfort? Let the past go and live in the present moment! It has happened and ITS OVER!! Oh yes and this ALSO applies to yourself. Stop beating yourself up for something you had done in the past and are no longer acting in a bad way. Live in the present and move forward and you will think better, feel better and act better.
Posted on: Fri, 24 Jan 2014 14:00:00 +0000
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