If a man has been with you for several years and still hasnt made a marriage proposal, this is most likely the reason why: He sees you as long term relationship material. That should be obvious by the fact hes been with you this long. Maybe even sees you as his potential wife some day. The problem is that there are still things about you causing certain red flags to be raised. And its those red flags that are making him pause. Think about that for a moment ladies... Some of you have serious issues! The kind that no thinking man in his rightful mind wants to marry into. And its unfair for you to expect a guy to overlook those issues and marry you anyway. DEAL WITH YOUR ISSUES! No man is obligated to take you as you are or to deal with serious personality defects. Thats YOUR baggage that YOU need to deal with. Ignoring it is seriously destroying your relationship potential. What Im finding out is how many women absolutely refuse to accept responsibility for or deal with serious character flaws or major dysfunctions they carry inside. Its as if they are afraid to face who they truly are. Im not talking just your normal stuff like raising ones voice when angry or having a little attitude. I mean MAJOR issues: the kind that kill relationships and damages friendships beyond repair. You cant just sweep that sort of thing under a rug and hope to trick a guy into a relationship anyway. That kind of deception has a short shelf life. Chances are the man youre with right now, who shouldve proposed to you by now but hasnt...already found what you tried to hide under the rug. And its keeping him from moving forward towards marriage. Now its up to you whether you get to grow beyond those issues by facing them head on or not. Or will you continue to run and hide from facing your deepest, darkest, ugliest self? Food for thought. * Well talk later about some solutions.
Posted on: Wed, 13 Aug 2014 19:57:57 +0000