Ok Ladies....Lets rub minds small. Seriously whats the whole fuss on Virginity? My dear, please if you are one of those who lies or have lied about your Virginity being intact whereas its not true, please put a stop to it immediately. . . .By lieing about such a thing,, you are shooting yourself in the foot because the truth will surely come to light. You might not be a Virgin but you also have the right to decide to be Celibate till when the time is right. Its no biggie, losing your Virginity. What most of you seems not to understand is, The fact that youve lost your Virginity doesnt in anyway make you irresponsible. Neither does the fact that being a Virgin till marriage automatically means youl have a beautiful and Successful Marriage devoid of the usual marital challenges. ((Dont get me wrong, im not saying its wrong to keep yourself till the right time)). . .my point is, Virginity is no guaranty to a Successful marriage. Alot of you Ladies, go out of your way, trying to regain your Virginity after you prolly lost it, SMH, the honest truth is, its all but a sheer waste of effort, time, and money, once your Hymen is broken, thats the end of it. No Jupiter can restore it. . . .some ladies will go as far as investing outrageous sum of money on some vagina tightening cream and soaps believed to restore Virginity or make the vag!na as tight as that of a Virgin, SMH ignorance at its finest! . . .all those Vag!na tightening creams and soaps you are using will definitely have negative effect on you in the long run, seriously is it worth the stress? The only way you can make your vag!na almost as that of a virgin is by going for surgery, but seriously its not worth the stress. . . . .However its imperative you dont joke with your Kegel exercises, it works like magic. Do it all the time and youl marvel at the after effect, its got no side effect as it doesnt entail you stuffing nasty things into your Vag!na. (Will teach you how to carryout Kegel Exercise later on) The most annoying part of this is, most of you dont even fight tooth and nail to regain your Virginity for genuine reasons, you usually do it in order to deceive that guy whom you prolly think is gullible, after lieing to him about still being a virgin. SMH stop it please. . . . .Just be true to yourself and your spouse. . . . .Claiming to be a virgin while youre not will only portray you as nothing but a prolific liar @ the end of the day and most guys finds it absolutely impossible to forgive such lies, thats why when men find out that theyve been lied to in that manner, they cant help but saliently display nasty revilements. (Lets turn the table around, if you as a young lady gets married to this dude who happens to create the impression of being wealthy and all that, only for you to find out after marriage that all the wealth hes been displaying before you are nothing but a mere mirage, how would you feel? Awful and irked, right?? Thats exactly the way the men feels when they discover you lied about your Virginity) You must understand that your man wants to be with you, not just your Virginity, your Virginity is a plus. Infact not all men wants to marry a Virgin. Bottomline::; A successful marriage/Children and Happiness/Life Achievement doesnt hinge on Virginity, so stop losing sleep over what you cant change.....dont get it twisted.
Posted on: Fri, 24 Jan 2014 08:35:46 +0000
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