PLAN FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND NOT YOUR WEDDING Its so amazing how people sit and take their time to plan for their wedding; how they think of planning the event so perfectly even as they pump in life time savings into it. They say, its always a once in a life time tin so lemme do it in the very best way i can so i can always have a good memory of it. Very correct and interesting aint it? The the Gospel truth is people fail to realise that, the event they channel all their time, money, energy and everything into its just a ONE DAY THING AND A ONE DAY EVENT that fades away as the day fades out. People prepare and plan for their wedding and fail to prepare and plan for their MARRIAGE which is not a ONE DAY THING OR EVENT BUT A LIFE TIME EVENT. WE concentrate less on this most important part which is the Life after the wedding. Remember marriage cant fade away until death do u path. It is not a boy/girl friend tin that you will wake up one morning to say am feed up with you lets break up. If your feed up in marriage, remember you will remain in it. In marriage their is no retreat no surrender, no break no leave until one dies. So think, plan and chose wisely your partner for this institution one can never graduate from but die with. Remove divorce or any appearance of it from your mind even before marriage, otherwise your getting prepared for divorce even before you are married. Learn to accommodate correct with love and forgive at all times; dont pill up wrongs and hurts brought to you by your partner otherwise You are only succeeding in setting up a nuclear time bomb that will surely detonate with time. No matter the nature of the hurt or wrong let your motor be, thank God it can be fixed we can fix this, you see! We finally fixed it. Dont build the mind set that you will one day get tired of your partner otherwise that very moment you become tired. But rather think of how lovely and irresistible your partner is to you at all times and how your love for him/her is without repentance. Remember, any man or woman who doesnt love God genuinely cant love his/her partner. And the better your relationship with God the better your relationship with your partner, the more interesting you find each other and everything about you both becomes enjoyable. The more your desires for God the more it is for your partner. Build yourself, prepare and plan for your marriage to avoid early exit or a bitter home for you and your family. God bless you. Iyalla Chris Peniel.
Posted on: Fri, 07 Nov 2014 18:36:08 +0000
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