***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! I desperately need some advice people. No nasty comments please. Ive been dating my best friend for about 10 months now, but weve had feelings for each other for more than 12 months. About May this year we had a break for a few weeks because we both needed to work out what we wanted as we are only young (he is older by a few years). Throughout the break we had I discovered I was pregnant, and some of the people I called friends became increasingly interested in him but they did not want to make him happy, only to make me angry. These girls gave me an incredibly hard time, but Ryan and I pulled through it. We sorted everything out and decided that we wanted to be in one anothers lives. I was at high risk of not being able to carry full term with my baby, but increased stress levels and an incident with one of these girls resulted in a miscarriage. This has torn both my partner and I apart emotionally. Im getting harassed and the guilt I feel from losing our baby is making me feel very depressed. I had a break down today that has been building up for weeks. I told my boyfriend exactly how Im feeling and what has been happening and at first he was bewildered that Ive let these girls push me to the point of wanting to end everything, but then he calmed down and he understood and just held me while I cried into his shoulder. He apologised for yelling at me and told me that he loves me and that he misses our baby too and that he constantly thinks about how things would be different if I hadnt lost it. I just need some advice on how I should handle these things and how to not push him away when Im upset.
Posted on: Sat, 26 Jul 2014 14:40:43 +0000
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