Sunan For Married Couples Getting married is one of the great Sunnahs of Rasulullah (saw). However, it recently struck me that not just is it a sunnah in itself, but also that it opens up the door to many others as well. There are many other sunan which only married people can act on, and which single people are deprived of. Below are just a few of them. May Allah ta’ala grant all married people, by virtue of acting on these things, a blissful, loving and lasting relationship; and may He make it easy for all of us singletons to get married, so that we can implement them as well. 1) Greet her. 2) Convey salams to her from others. 3) Smile at her. 4) Make dua for her. 5) Honour her friends, even after her death. Send them food from a sacrifice. 6) Eat from the same plate. 7) Drink from the same place where she places her mouth, and eat from the same place where she places her mouth. 8 ) Put a morsel of food in her mouth. 9) Let her comb your hair. 10) Recite Qur’an, while resting your head in her lap. 11) Take a ghusl with her from a single container. 12) Teach and advise her in a gentle manner. 13) Go racing with her and let her win. Later, when she puts on weight, race with her again and beat her. 14) Call her by an endearing nickname. 15) Wipe away her tears. 16) Heed her advice. 17) Take her with you on long journeys. If you have more than one wife, let them cast lots to decide who gets to go. 18) Spend time with her in entertainment, and stay with her until she is satisfied. 19) Let her spend time with her friends. 20) Give her time to adorn herself before going to her for intimacy. 21) Do not go to her in the manner of animals. 22) Make this dua before being intimate with her: Bismillah. Allahumma jannibnash shaitaan, wa jannibish shaitaana maa razaqtanaa. 23) Wake her up to make salah at night. If she doesn’t get up, sprinkle water on her face. Specifically on the wedding night 24) Let her pray two raka’at salah behind you and then make this dua: Allahumma baarik lee fee ahlee wa baarik lahum fiyya. Allahummarzuqhu m minnee warzuqnee minhum. Allahummajma’ bainanaa maa jama’ta ilaa khairin, wa farriq bainanaa idhaa farraqta ilaa khairin. 25) Place your hands on her head and make this dua: Allahumma innee as-aluka khairahaa wa khaira maa jabaltahaa ‘alaih; wa a’oodhu bika min sharrihaa wa min sharri maa jabaltahaa ‘alaih. 26) Give her some milk to drink.
Posted on: Sun, 15 Sep 2013 10:08:49 +0000
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