We withhold forgiveness because we make giving it about the other person. In realty, forgiveness has nothing at all to do with the other person and whether or not they deserve your grace. It has to do with YOU. Do you see yourself worthy enough for this type of self-care? Do you love yourself enough that you would to choose to forgive in order to free yourself from the bond that keeps tying you to an unfavorable circumstance or person? Your answer should be YES. Choose today to unyoke from a negative that withholding forgiveness binds you to. You do not need to roll conversations, situations, should haves or would bes in your head or your heart any longer. Forgiveness does not say things are perfect but rather that you see yourself as valued, worthy to be free from the consumption that crooning unhealthy ties can bring. Then and only then will you be able to see the situation or the person for what it is or who they are...and somethings are just what they are. No amount of emotional torment exerted on your end will change it. Only from a place of forgiveness can you move forward and begin to determine what you will allow and what you will not, what your piece is and what is someone elses. Establishing appropriate boundaries from the posture of forgiveness says that I AM important. I will NOT allow this to consume me into a position of defeat.
Posted on: Wed, 12 Nov 2014 15:46:04 +0000
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