Why the purge all of a sudden? Well, honestly, Im tired of haters. Ive always said I hv nothing to hide and if anyone wants to know something about me, Just ask and I will tell them. Some say that its not that I have haters, just people who dont understand me. You say po-tay-toe I say po-tah-toe. Regardless, theyre still tlkg bad abt me. Ive always said I dont care what people say or think about me; however, Maybe I should rephrase that to mean, I do care when it affects people I care about. When my boyfriend and I recently got together, many people were genuinely happy and supportive of us. On the other hand, some of who have heard things about my former marriage decided to take the initiative to inform my bf of this as to discourage him from being with me. One person tried to break us up and went to extreme measures to do so. It was so crazy what the person did that I seriously considered walking away just because I honestly didnt need anymore drama than I already hv been through. However, why should I sacrifice my own happiness because someone else doesnt want me and my bf together? (FYI: No, it wasnt my ex-hubs). Better yet, why should I give that person the satisfaction of knowing he or she got his or her wish? Its difficult enough trying to get along with someone in a relationship or marriage. Why add haters to the mix? Why they gotta add their two cents in instead of letting us figure it out for ourselves? Every relationship is different. Ive had many relationships of which all ran a different course; therefore, not like the one with my ex. I am friends with all me exes and that in it of itself should speak volumes. Whats also sad is that when word got out that i was gonna attend my high school reunion that i was never formally invited to this past week, heads turned and gossip broke out. Some werent happy and I definitely got wind of it. Of course, women. These people were as always, cordial and fake to my face, but I knew what was up. Was it difficult to be there knowing this? Oh most definitely. However, to heck with letting these few individuals keep me from having fun and catching up with the ones who DID invite me and want me to come. Aint no one keeping me from doing what I want to do or places to go. Whats also sad is that another former alum didnt want to go to the reunion because she didnt think any of these Mean Girls had changed. She was right, but by her not going, she let them win. If we let ppl dictate what we can or cannot do, we become prisoners in our own body; thats no way to live. The sooner we live by our own rules (of course abiding the laws) and not by what others expect of us, the freer we can be to truly enjoy our own lives.
Posted on: Tue, 29 Jul 2014 01:01:45 +0000
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