please post without my name... I just started seeing my boyfriend not too long ago.. about 6 months ago. We hit it off, we love each other so much. And then he told me about his PTSD. I want to be there for him but I am finding it very difficult. One day he will say that I am everything to him, the next day he gets defensive about me hanging out with my friends and not "being there" when he needs me. But when i need him... sometimes I get no reply. I have been a little confused. He was in Afganistan for 12 years.. he saw a lot of things.. he said he goes to counseling once a week for 2 hour talks with a VA counselor, but sometimes I wonder if it is enough. I suggest more counseling to him and he just says that he "already goes to counseling". He says things that really scare me and make me worry for him... Im not sure what to do., I started seeing a psychologist of my own to initially help him and try to learn to be a better support for him, ...but what else can i do??? Sometimes I feel like I am on constant pins and needles.. :/ I love him and I want to help and be a support, but he has to want to help himself, how can i get him to help himself more???
Posted on: Mon, 24 Jun 2013 14:04:51 +0000
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