A CAGED BIRD STILL SINGS- Fellas, take for instance that youre in a healthy relationship with a lady. Well quite a number of ladies for certain would want to introduce you to their female friends, although i have never advised that. Here are some of the reasons why it is not advisable for your lady to introduce you to her female friends. (1) If youre lady has 5 female friends, AT LEAST, there are 2 of them that have feelings for you but would keep it to themselves. They do this because they dont want to spoil the relationship, yet THERE ARE A LOT WHO ACTUALLY PURSUE. To them, you being the man, you have the final decision. (2) You might be attracted to them and you might not help yourself and if they dont feel the same way, you end up causing trouble in your relationship. Its like a double loss and what is more funny is that judgement is passed on you, so all in all, you need to just move away and start afresh again. Now let us address the fact that some of your ladys friends might have feelings for you. How do you handle this situation ? Confront her friend and explain to her that, if you agree to her advances, it would spoil her friendship with your woman. If she is still persistent, then do as much as you can to stay away from her friends without necessarily letting your woman know. There is a reason to this, if your woman confronts her, she might lie on you, that would also put your lady in a tight spot. If youre one who chooses to tell your woman about it, then make sure, with you, YOU HAVE ENOUGH PROOF so she does not lie that youre the one who came on her. Left to me, it would be better not to get your woman involved, rather sort out the situation by explaining to her that it is wrong. If you were ever friends with your womans female friends and due to this, they cannot be your friends anymore, then you have no choice but to keep them at arms length. P.S. TAKE NOTE, if you and your woman are no longer together, IF HER FRIEND COMES BACK TO YOU, IF YOU BEGIN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, it would cause a strain on their friendship. You can choose to do this, but left to me, the last thing i want to do is come between 2 female friends. I would rather keep both at arms length than causing them to fight, the way women make men fight. Ponder on this for a while.
Posted on: Fri, 10 Oct 2014 00:18:51 +0000
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