A CONFIDENT WOMAN IS A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. Yesterday, i got so many feed back from the post how to know a wife material and i am glad that it was and is a yardstick for any one who is thinking about marriage but confused about what to look out for. I will add CONFIDENCE also to that list. Because a woman without confidence in herself will do all the wrong things. Confidence is a feeling that you can do something well, something can succeed or something is true. When you vibrate at the level of i know who i am and what God has deposited in me, therefore i will not fail and i am beautiful. - A confident woman knows that her being is not rooted in the physical looks alone. Are you the i cannot take a walk without a makeup, my boo cannot see me without make-up kind of chic and i will say to you that you have no confidence at all. What of when you finally get married? will you be wearing makeup to sleep and upon waking? A time will come that it will wear you out and you would be forced to face your inner self and what you believe about yourself. A confident woman knows that she IS beautiful, make up or no make up. Heights or no heights, fat or slim, dark or light skinned. A person who lacks confidence tremendously will give into the pressure of using bleaching creams to change their complexion or become bulimic because they feel they have to loose weight by all means to look beautiful. -A confident woman is an achiever: Look at where you are in your life what have you single-handedly achieved on you own? What have you created? List those things you have achieved on your own because you wanted to do them. And you will now how confident you are in yourself. -A confident lady follows her dream and is not lazy: The worse type of people on earth are people who hallucinate and think they are dreaming big. Your dream is a dream when you are taking steps to bring those dream to manifestation. Dreams are visions and ideas. Hallucination is a perception of something or objects that SEEM real but ARE NOT. Your dream is the realest thing about you, because it gives you an idea of what you ARE already, the real deal, the real you, your purpose and you would be wise enough to follow it and bring it to fruition. -A confident lady is not all about power or control: Sometimes the biggest part of being confident is releasing control of anything. The most powerful people on earth are those who know when to let go and are not control freaks. I used to like to control things and the way people thought and acted until i realized that Toyin, you will be in for a long ride with this attitude. Give it up. -A confident woman is not afraid to be herself. Be REAL. This is the best advice i can give anyone. Be real always, 24/7 everyday, all through the year. And speak your truth as much as possible. A fake person would always be found out, a liar would always be found out. It is that simple. We will stop here. It is well with us all. Have a great and beautiful Wednesday. Love and light from my heart.
Posted on: Wed, 26 Nov 2014 09:02:38 +0000
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