Dear Grieving Mother, Welcome to the sisterhood of the wailing tent. Although with profound condolences, I know this greeting will soon be forgotten, for your heart and soul have sustained a terrible blow. The shock known as the fog will accompany you for some time, greatly impacting your memory. So I offer you this written welcome to refer to when your recollection falters. The wailing tent is an honored place where only mothers with a broken spirit can enter. Admittance is gained not with an ID card bearing your name, but with the profound sorrow freshly etched on your heart. Membership is free, for you have already paid the unfathomable price. The directions to the wailing tent are secret, available only to mothers who speak our language of everlasting grief. No rules are posted, no hours are noted. There is no hierarchy, no governing body. Your membership has no expiration date, it is lifelong. The refuge offered within its walls does not judge members based on age, religious belief, or social status. You can hang your camouflages and mask outside, and if you cant make it past the door, we will surround you with love right where you lay. The wailing tent is a shelter where mothers shed anguished tears among her new-found sisters. A haven where all forms of wailing are honored, understood, and accepted. In the beginning, you will be very afraid, and will hate the wailing tent and everything it stands for. You will flail, thrash about, and spew vile words in protest. You will fight to be free of the walls, wishing desperately to offer a plea bargain for a different tent, learn a different language. Those emotions will last for some time. Your family and friends cannot accompany you here. The needs of the wailing tent are invisible to them and, though they will frantically try, they simply cannot comprehend the language nor fathom the disembodied, guttural howls heard within. In the beginning, your stays here will seem endless. Over time, the need for your visits will change and eventually you will observe some mothers talking, even smiling, rather than wailing. Those are the mothers who have learned to balance profound anguish with moments of peace, though they still need to seek refuge among us from time to time. Do not judge those mothers as callused or strong, for they have endured profound heartache to attain the peace they have found. Their visits here are greatly valued, for their hard earned wisdom offers hope that we too will learn to balance the sadness in our hearts. Lastly, you need not flash your ID card or introduce yourself each time you visit, for we know who you are. You are one of us, an honorary lifelong sister of the wailing tent. Welcome, my wailing sister. Fondly, The Sisterhood of the Wailing Tent Author Lynda Cheldelin Fell ***Shared in Our Group, I take NO Credit from the author. Its A Must Read & Share!! https://facebook/GrievingMothers.org
Posted on: Tue, 18 Mar 2014 05:52:49 +0000
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