Good evening. Pls hide my id. i am a lady aged 40 married for 13 years with 3 children only girls. I loved my husband and instead of love keep growing its jst dying and my feelings for him are becoming dry. At our age i expect our marriage to be mutual and becoming stable but all is in vein. My husband had a child before aged 16 now a girl and he lied to me when we where in courtship that he has no child.B4 getting married found out that he had a child and i asked him he agreed. We got married and he never wanted to talk abt the child and where her mother was. He promised that the child will never bring problems. Trouble started when his relatives (brothers) advised him to take the child with him of which i had no problems but he failed to tell me he would bring the child home. I tried to live in homourn with the child but the father is a problem. When talking to her he tells the daughter no one should scare you in this house and being the first born you are the owner of everything. When we are sleeping in the bedroom he would call her and enters the bedroom telling her what ever he wants. I am bemba and he is tonga when he insults awe mwandi. I am not respected in this house and i feel like walking away and live a life which can make me feel am respected. It hurts to be insulted in front of the children. The waste thing is even the child has started doing things against me who i have kept for 6 years. I have to make a decision.
Posted on: Fri, 08 Aug 2014 08:46:34 +0000
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