Good morning people! It is time to get out of bed and make sure that we make this new day another great day! May be a day where we understand why we shouldnt give up on love. We all wish we had that fantasy relationship, but once you are dating someone, you realise that you have to learn how to take care of someone else when, for the longest time, you have been so used to taking care of only yourself. So there you are, out of a relationship with your heart broken, promising to yourself not to be with anyone else ever again. Never again will you open up to someone. Never again will you make the effort to see someone. Never again will you love someone. That’s what you think, until you meet someone who makes you happy. When you meet someone after a heartbreak, you promise yourself that you are going to act differently toward him/her. You think, I’m doing this one differently. I won’t open up or move as fast as the last one. But for what? The best part about being with someone is being able to be yourself. Let me tell you a few reasons why you should never hold yourself back from your next special someone! If you hold back, he or she misses out on you. You are an awesome person, whether some people like to think so or not. You are funny and exciting. You like to go out with friends and have a good time. Don’t let your next significant other miss out on opportunities to be with the real you. Be yourself, and if people like you, you will know they like you for being you. If you hold back, you will miss out on real love. When you hold yourself back, you are giving up on love. Being scared to open up to someone new is normal. We are born reserved, we don’t go up to people and tell them our life story, and we most definitely don’t tell our significant others every piece of our lives at the beginning of a relationship. There is nothing wrong with taking things slowly, just be sure you are both on the same page and ready to move forward together. If you hold back, you will never get to know him or her. People aren’t stupid. If you aren’t into them, they can feel it. If you have a wall up, they will eventually put a wall up, too. Take the risk, open up to the other person so you give him or her a chance to open up to you. There is nothing more important than being with someone who is willing to grow with you each day. If you hold back, when you are ready, it will be too late. There are many things you can blame the other person if the relationship doesn’t work out, but if you are constantly going backwards or stuck in the same spot, he or she will get bored and move on. Everyone deserves to be with someone who is willing to make him or her happy. If you hold back, you will eventually be unhappy. Keeping your true self away from someone you care about can take a toll on you in the long run. You will get used to being so reserved and confined that it will be the only way you know. You don’t want to end up being scared to open up to your significant other when you finally realise you are ready to be yourself. Don’t let your last relationship ruin the possibility of being happy with someone else. If you hold back, you won’t experience the real definition of adventure. You want to be with someone who is spontaneous? Think outside of the box. You want to experience new places? Step out of your comfort zone. You don’t want to feel alone anymore? Let someone in. Yes, that may sound easier said than done, but take a chance on someone new. If he or she is willing to give you his or her all, you should do the same, when you do, you will see what happens. If you hold back, you won’t learn anything new about yourself. Being in relationships only teaches you more about who you are. It shows you what you like, love, dislike, hate and don’t care for. Take what you learned in your last relationship and put it in your new relationship. If it’s something positive, great. If it’s negative, that’s great, too. Either way, you will know exactly how to steer away from that negative and turn it in to a positive. Remember this, forget about the past, it’s behind you for a reason. If it didn’t work out with someone, there’s someone else waiting to make you happy, waiting to get the full experience of your beautiful personality. youtu.be/Mk7-GRWq7wA
Posted on: Sun, 23 Nov 2014 07:28:32 +0000
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