HOW LOVERS HAVE TURNED FACEBOOK INTO A BATTLEFIELD I wonder what some people take Facebook to be. They think that Facebook is the only platform they’ll let the whole world know that they’re in love with someone. They never like to keep their drama off Facebook. TODAY their relationship status reads in a relationship, married or engaged to so and so. They’re in too much love praising, complimenting, flattering and calling each other sweet names. In the mid of the WEEK suspicions, jealous & other insecurities set in. At the end of the MONTH they hate one another, they call each other all sorts of ugly names, and they update their status with the aim of hurting each other’s feelings. In the MID of the YEAR they are back in too much love. They now post pictures when they are cuddling, snogging… They mention how they’re at the beaches, clubs, cinema, parks and hotels having fun with their partners. They update their status telling the whole world how they’re at their lover’s cribs watching a romantic movie, having fun and listening to love ballads. At the END of the YEAR they again see each other’s ugly side. They start accusing each other over false things. They change their relationship status to single or complicated. They reach to the point of unfriending and blocking each other. They start posting that they are single & searching, single & contented, I hate love, all men are dogs, and all women are hoe. At this point the relationship is over but they keep ask their friends to tell them how their Exes are doing and what they talk about them. Few months later they unblock each other and they again send friend requests to the other. They now update their statuses pleading and asking for forgiveness hence repeating the same process. I think that’s puppy love. Why not putting your dirty drama off Facebook? Why taking Facebook to be the high court of love? Why publicizing your love which isn’t intended to last forever? Why exposing your immaturity, weaknesses and secrets? Why making each other a laughing matter? Why making love lose meaning? Why losing your dignity? Why making yourself a common figure on Facebook? People better grow-up. Publicizing your love affairs on Facebook isn’t the only way to show someone that you love them that much. Cease exposing your weaknesses & learn to solve your love issues with your partners. Know that not everyone wishes your relationship to flourish. Meet someone on Facebook, fall in love with them and keep your love issues to yourselves. Stop making Facebook a battle field of your love. Women, respect your age. Stop acting like young girls & start acting like real mature ladies and men also respect your age. Cease acting like young boys and start acting like grown up Gentlemen. If you’re a victim of this and the truth being put here has hurt you. Sorry about it but better grown up.
Posted on: Thu, 11 Dec 2014 04:54:26 +0000