He hit you, and now, youre trying to figure out your next move. You love him dearly, but being the victim of abuse was just not in your lifes plans. But...you love him, so you stick it out and hope hell change. Heres what you need to know: We are all a reflection of whatever we are in submission to. When a man is in submission to CHRIST, he will reflect CHRIST in his words and actions. When a man is in submission to demons, he will reflect them through this demonic ways. But you love him...and were not all perfect; right? Heres what happens when he strikes you. He feels a surge of power that hes never felt before, and that power is addictive. Sure, hes angry, but at the same time, he enjoys the adrenaline rush he gets every time he strikes you. He may even get aroused while beating on you. With every punch, kick and slap he gives you, he experiences that surge. So, the beatings become more frequent, and he seems to get crueler and crueler with each beating. Hes slapping you a lot harder now. Hes punching you with a lot more force now. Hes choking you a lot longer now. Notice that elevation in his breathing and that glazed look in his eyes? Thats his body responding to the adrenaline that hes getting from inflicting pain on you. But, after each beating, when everything has cooled off, hes back to being apologetic. He becomes more and more manipulative in his attempts to keep you. Youre the best woman he ever had.....thats what he tells himself. Youre the best because you take the most. If you were raised in neighborhoods and in families where you saw men and women fighting all the time, abuse may not be a big deal for you. As a matter of fact, you may not even realize youre being abused because the woman on television whos getting beat up doesnt fight back. She just covers her face, pleads with her husband or boyfriend to stop, and she always ends up on the floor in the fetal position. Oh, how many days have you wished that you were her so you could fight back? But you are being abused; the only difference is: you manage to get a few licks in while youre being pummeled. So, when someone asks you about those bruises, you say that you and your man were fighting. You wont use the word abused because thats all too humiliating; especially, amongst a bunch of pride-filled people who swear that theyd be locked up if a man were to hit them. But guess what? That surge of power he feels hitting you is so addictive that hes not going to stop. One day, he may punch you too hard, choke you too long or kick you with too much force...and thats it. Your funeral would be scheduled for the following weekend, and hell likely show up at your funeral and cry over your coffin before going home and calling his other girlfriend. You finally got him to pray though. Now, hes praying that he doesnt get arrested. Oh..and he did have some great moments with you....That time he punched you with all his might...Yep, he dreamed about that for twelve nights straight. That time when he held your head underwater, he actually had an orgasm. He didnt tell you that he was spiritually sick and full of demons because he didnt know and he didnt care. All he knew was it felt good to hurt you. You thought you could change him, but instead, he made you nothing more than a statistic; just another woman who took the abuse and held on for so long that she ended up paying the ultimate price. Yes...abuse is that serious. A man who hits you is SICK in his spirit, and there are no words you can say that will heal him. Walk away before you end up being at Heavens gates trying to explain to GOD why you put a man before HIM and those children HE entrusted you with. Its not worth it. Walk away. #Survivor
Posted on: Sat, 30 Aug 2014 12:12:58 +0000
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