Healing Together Ascended Master, Serapis Bey’s Weekly Channeled Message ~ August 15 – 23, 2014 The truth is dear ones, just like no two snowflakes are exactly the same, there are no two humans that are exactly the same. Every single dear soul is beautifully unique, special and necessary. Each dear soul carries distinctive differences, interests, talents, skills, what drives them, and so forth and it is these differences that creates who they are as an individual. Beyond your individuality, within each of you is a grand potential of human, spiritual growth…a spiritual growth that is not based on religious spirit, but on compassion, goodwill and love towards all others. The inner development that will take you along brilliant directions, will be established over time and with time on your side you will find authentic happiness because you will find your authentic self that will bring you to fulfillment and deep self-satisfaction with life and the world around you. Along the way, there will be suffering, you will be greeted by painful events and situations. And through these challenges, you gather wisdom, personal information on what you like compared to what you don’t like, and what you truly want out of life that is not derived from ego. Besides the interplay with others that can create conflict, most of your personal suffering comes from the limitations of your mind. When an impactful event comes your way, sometimes you truly believe that the pain you are experiencing is something you must individually endure and is unique to only you. At the moment of entering the difficult situation or event, you begin to believe that you have been forced to struggle and push through and overcome hardships that are unmatched by anyone else. You end up feeling isolated, alone and separated from the rest of the world. The pain covers you like a burdensome blanket, preventing you from reaching out to others. The truth is dear ones, every single dear soul has endured some sort of pain and suffering and hardships in their lifetime, and some much younger than yourself and some much older. Hardship and suffering is not selective, suffering does not only come to certain groups or people under specific financial status or cultural background…pain and suffering can be reached and felt by all human class of life. Because pain and suffering is such a widely shared affliction, it also can be said it exists as One Suffering, each of you enduring various degrees of a similar experience or event. If more people took a brave step and shared their pain, openly and honestly of their personal experiences and of their despair and suffering, they would quickly recognize they are not alone, that there are others in similar boats; just at different degrees. When you speak to others of suffering, there is no comparisons needed, only acceptance, respect and love is needed. Remember your uniqueness, just because you have similar experiences does not mean your pain and anguish will be felt the same way or at the same level. Sharing brings two different people together under the same suffering, helping one another to cope and to give comfort and support. When you are able to focus less on any apparent difference, you will see there is only One Suffering. Those personal, inner wounds that came about because of the challenging situation that created pain will heal faster as you gain a splendid and renewed connection with others and the rest of the world. Each dear soul at some point in their life will endure loss of a loved one, or even the loss of a cherished family pet. Death is always a sad event, but remember death of one gives room for another. We understand that, that kind of practical reality is not a comfort at the time of grieving. What is needed is comfort, sharing of those that have endured death of a loved one who has passed on making room for One Suffering, sharing loss, giving comfort and support to those and with those that understand from experience. When you share what you are feeling with family and friends that have experienced loss of this depth, you’ll hear stories of their personal hardships, how they endured and you will resonate to various degrees of each person’s story of loss, understanding beyond the differences, honing in on the similarities. This helps you feel less alone as you are connected by One Suffering, even if there are degrees of differences on how each person felt and coped. It is a comfort in knowing others share in this sort of suffering, it brings a togetherness found within suffering from loss. Heartache is something each and every dear soul understands. There are some dear souls among you that have been blessed by finding their soul mates and marrying them and are still with them, but throughout their lives they have had friends that come and go for different reasons. Heartache is not only felt when love is lost between two romantically involved partners, but heartache can also be found when friends separate and become null in void. When the love between two people is broken, the pain can be horrendous. At the time of the heartache, it is easy to perceive that your pain is the only pain and you are enduring the worst of anyone else’s. Of course this is farthest from the truth. When heartache is fresh, the hurt is deep and prevents clarity and your focus can be clouded because of the emotional pain. Try to remember that everyone has suffered heartache. There will be different degrees, but there is One Suffering being felt. When you share your experience with others that understand, that are empathetic, you will begin to feel better and heal at a faster rate than trying to bottle everything up. Things that are bottled up have a tendency of exploding, making an unnecessary mess. We don’t want you exploding with buried emotional pain, we encourage you to share, to open up to others and to heal your beautiful, precious heart because you have more love to give and to receive. Sadness brings a different kind of pain, but the despair as a result of sadness is real and can be quite debilitating. The sadness felt could be from enduring a loss, a breakup, parents’ divorce, or other incidents that can bring about deep-rooted sadness. Try to understand dear ones that sadness is a common and natural human emotion that is felt from time-to-time. Sadness is something that can bring people together under One Suffering. Even if each person is sad for different reasons, the sadness itself is what is bringing you to share with another, to feel less alone and to heal together. If you are going through a sad moment because of an event in your life that has caused you to reflect to rethink life and yourself and those around you, by sharing with friends, family, even strangers, possibly someone who specializes in helping people cope with sadness will show you that expressing your emotional anguish is healthful. Sharing is healing. You don’t need to share with the whole world, but with those that you trust and with those that will not be biased, someone you can count on to listen and not necessarily advise right away…someone to help you overcome your sadness and bring you back to enjoying life. There is not a person out there that has not encountered fear. There are many kinds of fear; the fear of the unknown, the fear of being hurt, the fear of being loved, the fear of death, the fear of change…Fear that is shared, as a part of your growing and developing fits under the concept of One Suffering. Fear can and does bring about suffering. Each unique individual will feel fear differently from the next dear soul, but it is the fear itself that helps you to connect to others when you are ready to talk about what it is you fear. Fear, is just another emotion, it something that has to be worked through and overcome in order to move away from its torment, pain and suffering. When you are able to realize from the sharing of your experience that brought about fear, you’ll quickly determine that other dear souls have felt fear for different reasons. You are able to appreciate what the fear is trying to teach you and help you move past from, and understand fear is just an emotion. It cannot control you, unless you allow it. Every emotion that shows itself cannot limit you or control you unless you allow it to take over your rational thought. You can endure any emotion because you have the power to choose. Pain and suffering can also be felt when there is conflict. Regardless of the degree of conflict, or who it is with, it is a natural cause and element of your existence. Without conflict you would not be able to see what needs to be fixed or changed. Conflict exists in all class of people to different degrees and for different reasons, but still exists nonetheless. However, by choosing to communicate with compassion, respecting others differences of opinion, conflict can be overcome. It is important to focus less on the differences between those in conflict and put your attention on discussing what is similar. Regardless of physical, cultural or spiritual preferences and differences, people from different sides can easily come together in peace and harmony, and bond under One Suffering and work together in ending the conflict. Some people suffer personal and emotional pain due to the fear of failure, or from failing itself. Failure can be considered also as rejection. Failure can be crippling and create deep insecurities and doubt from not fulfilling certain roles or tasks asked upon them, because they have felt the sting of overly critical people. It is unfortunate that some people feel compelled to hurt another through hurtful words, judgements and criticism. This sort of fear of failure can be quite stressful and difficult to endure. It is best to endure together with others that have felt the sting of someone’s critical tongue, form friendships and relationships that help you feel less alone and more connected. Because failure is a natural element of your growth and development, it shouldn’t be given so much leeway where it can cause anguish and despair. If a failure has occurred, that is a clear indication that something was missed and an opportunity to learn what went wrong and how to apply this knowledge for the next time because there will always be a next time. Of course failing at something, or even rejection does not feel good. Instead of wallowing in your grief, allow failure to be the means to assess your own efforts, energy and concentrated focus. Don’t hide your failures, share them with others. When you share your weaknesses and shortcomings with others, you will encourage others to open up and share as well and through the sharing of One Suffering, you’ll learn how to cope and overcome your own pain and suffering. Life has so much to teach you. It is too easy to get caught up in the sad stuff, but you can turn that sad stuff into healing then eventually back into joy. Reach out to others, make connections with people that resonate with your heart and allow yourself to let go of the pain, and to grow from the experience. And so it is… I AM Ascended Master, Serapis Bey through Julie Brandt Miller
Posted on: Sat, 16 Aug 2014 10:39:51 +0000
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