How you communicate with your partner is the most important factor in defining the quality of your relationship. But its not just about what you say, how you resolve conflicts, or how much you know about each other. Its about reaching out to your partner and communicating at a much deeper level. Its about having a level of intimacy where you can share your deepest secrets without even thinking twice. Its about having a level of intimacy where you can share your fears, your desires, your insecurities and your dreams. If you have someone with whom you can connect on such deep levels, then hold on to them. But if you have a relationship that seems to be losing that attachment, then you have to learn how to work on it. Conversations are a very powerful tool in a relationship. By having the right conversations, you can create an attachment so deep, that even the worst fights and the biggest disagreements wont be able to impair it. Every couple will have fights, but when the attachment is not strong enough, the fights become the center of the relationship. If you have a strong connection with your partner, the fights will be like a breeze. They might disturb you for a while but not strong enough to cause any damage at all.
Posted on: Fri, 09 Jan 2015 19:05:06 +0000