I found my room mate personality: TYPE 3: The Hold and Explode Roommate (aka Passive Aggressive) How do you know you have this roommate? That’s the funny part: You dont know until its a bit too late. Dirty dishes from the sink somehow end up on your bed. One day you dont take out the trash for a few days, and your roommate nearly blows a gasket. Think about it: Is it really about the trash bag? Most likely, no. Theyve just allowed their frustration to build until they explode. How to deal? We are all from different walks of life. What is no big deal to one person can make the next person lose it. Some people are non-confrontational and perhaps were raised not to complain. So they hold and explode. They are the room mate type that is respectful of others and understand that everyone is raised different. If You try to become more approachable and non-judgmental, even the most timid person will feel comfortable enough to open up to you and let you know right away. You may find out your Cat, garlic-infused cooking, noises at night and shoes all over the floor are all making your roommate a little nuts. If the list gets too long due to incompatibility, well, then lesson learned. Next time disclose a little more about the things you are not willing to change. Actually hanging out and learning your Passive Agressive roommate will help you understand why they are the way they are. You cant judge or try to change your roommate and the PA type is accepting to coexist. After you learn this roommate, they usually turn into the best type to live with.
Posted on: Sun, 10 Nov 2013 15:17:44 +0000
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