I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving!! Prayers, thoughts, suggestions, and your voice wanted!! As many of you know I have been in a constant struggle to stay in my childrens lives for over 14 years. I have spent well over 150k in this struggle, and I have jumped through every hoop placed in front of me and there is nothing I would not do to be in their lives. Despite my efforts I am still as far from being part of my childrens lives as ever. I have had forensic psychologists and attorneys, hence the 150k spent, review my case to figure out why I am being kept from my children and none can give me an answer. I am not even able to speak to them on the phone. The judge on this case is very close to the family of my ex with a tremendous amount of money. Yes, the horror stories you hear of in what can happen in family courts is truly a reality. I am now facing losing my son having to go to court to fight his step-father as he is trying to adopt him taking my name off the birth certificate. His claim is that I have not made any effort to be in his life which is absurd. I would show up to pick him up and no one would show. When I call and text I either get no answer or the text would say my son doesnt want to talk to me. That has been going on since 2010 when my son was 3 years of age. If any of you had ever seen my son with me then you know what a lie that is as he would scream bloody murder when his mothers family picked him up from my visitation. He never wanted to leave my side. I have yet to get the judge to allow me to present my case and evidence. Twice my girls were supposed to testify to what they wanted and as to the abuse, and both times the judge would mysteriously disappear from the court. Once I know for a fact he went to deposit money at his bank in his personal account in the middle of the hearing. This took up the time my daughter was to testify. She became so upset later that night she was committed for suicide watch at the age of 10. After that hearing in 2010, I filed complaints against this judge only to be told by director of the judiciary committee that judges make mistakes too. I recently learned a week ago, after an attorney try to look up the complaint, that there are no complaints showing on his reviews. Meaning, mine was never filed properly. With the help of a forensic psychologist from another state, I have found that the counselor and psychologist that was appointed by and friends with the judge violated their rules and regulations. These violations led to the loss of my visitation in my last hearing. The funny thing is the judge ignored the advice of 2 other psychologist and 3 other counselors saying they dont know what they are talking about. The order from the judge read in a way that the mothers have absolute power in whether or not my children can contact me. The order also took over a half a year to be posted and has no reason for my visitation being terminated, only that I be involved with a counselor of my choice. The problem is the counselor as well as the forensic psychologist I used have no idea what to work on as the order didnt specify. This leaves me with no way to get my children back and I havent any luck in having a change in venue or having the judge recuse himself. I hope you find this as much as a tragedy as I do, because this scenario is not totally uncommon in family law if you research it which means this can happen to anyone. And yes, parents, blinded by their own emotions and personal agendas, can truly be this vindictive not thinking of what is best for their children. The bottom line is children deserve and need both their parents!! My hope and prayer are to bring public awareness to the outdated laws of Arkansas and to have them revised to allow shared parenting. Many other states have already recognized the importance of both patents in childrens lives, and revised their laws to include shared parenting. Shared parenting doesnt allow for one parent to have absolute power and custody, but allows the children to have equal access to both parents. The evidence of shared parenting shows overwhelming positive outcomes in children that have equal access to both parents versus the negative outcomes of children that are kept from one of their parents by the other. In fact, manipulation of children against one of their parents by the other parent is considered psychological warfare and creates mental abuse for the children involved. My heart beats and bleeds for my children and there isnt a night I dont shed a tear and pray to hold them in my arms once more letting them know how much their father loves them. I need your prayers, thoughts, and voices!! God Bless!!
Posted on: Sun, 30 Nov 2014 04:38:55 +0000
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