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If you say hurtful negative things to people expect negativity back. If someones reaching out to you for support or guidance and you push them away the response will be negative. If you kick someone when theyre down the reaction is negative. If you want the people around you to be happy positive people you gotta treat them decently. Dont play games with them, use every opportunity to critisise them, bite their hand off when they extend an olive branch after they admit to a mistake and then complain theyre being negative. If you want someone to grow you dont stamp on them when they try. And when they take your critisisms on board and try to do something about them be glad that theyve listened and accepted- you cant tell people they should be different, and then expect them to remain positive and enlightened when you discourage them. Dont be a negative part of someones life and expect positivity back from them it doesnt work like that. If you truly believe its our imperfections that make us human and make us special dont then punish people relentlessly for having them and make them feel bad about themselves! Embrace the good things in a person celebrate the positive in them and everything you get in return will be positive and healthy. Dont bring people down and then blame them for feeling it - its not rocket science. And when someones in a bad place have some kindness and compassion because one day you might need some of it too from someone and believe me noone will stand by you- like someone who knows what youre going through. And most importantly dont judge a library by one chapter in one story. People are complex and difficult to understand at times but thats ok-because the rewards of solving the riddles are often worth it. Look for the good in me and youl find it right away. But if you only look for the bad then yeah thats all youll find. But thats not my fault. Im trying. Respect that or get out.
Posted on: Fri, 29 Aug 2014 07:34:36 +0000

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