Inbox: Could I have a private post please. No bashing!! Sorry for long post Ive been with my partner for 3 years and we have a 13 month lil boy together (I also have a 4 yr old from previous r.ship) anyway things have always been up and down with us and wen our son was 6 weeks old both children were took into care (thro no fault of our own we went out to celebrate our engagement and left kids with sister the next day our son came out in bruises I took him to a n e and the next thing ya kno were being accused of all sorts) we went thro 5 month of hell to get them back and all we got was an apology off ss and a we were wrong. However what should of been a good day turned out to be a bad one when he took off to his mams and after two weeks of him not being home and ignoring me etc I kicked him out. Were not back together and have been for 4 months but his not at all interested in his own son I do everything and pay for everything he wont even move back home stays with me two nights out the month and even then he comes over when the kids are in bed and leaves when they get up. I love him to bits and so does my oldest but Im at the point now where in thinking why am I doing this why am I putting up with this? He thinks Im in the wrong for thinking this and he says I shouldnt of kicked him out etc. So Im guess Im just looking for advice what would other people do in my situation? Should I end it or just hope it will get better? Can I also add in the 13 month of our sons life he maybe spent 3 days with him in a row other then that its once a week for a few hours and thats only cause his mam has him at hers wher his obviously living. Charlene x
Posted on: Tue, 29 Oct 2013 09:48:01 +0000