Ladies, if men aren’t paying you any attention or asking you out on dates, don’t be upset, don’t cry, don’t complain… It’s a good thing! You may ask nonchalantly, “Why do you say it’s a good thing? What can possibly be good about being single? All of my friends have a man. Has God forgotten about me? Is it really worth waiting on someone who is ‘supposedly’ made for me?” Look at your life in this perspective…you don’t have a bunch of thirsty men chasing you, running in and out your house, or have a different man every week/month. A godly woman realizes she is rare and priceless understand you’re different from most women who seek attention. As a man of God there is nothing more unattractive than a woman with a bad attitude and one who flaunts her body for men to lust after her. No godly man wants a loose woman, one would most likely walk right pass you. As I always say, you are what you attract. Do you wonder why you are single? Do you ever question your appearance or why no man has approached you? It’s because you’re Holy! Holiness sets you apart from worldly, carnal minded, lukewarm women. God is hiding you and only a godly man can find you. “Ladies, don’t be so desperate for something that you settle for anything. Just because he’s a male doesn’t mean he’s a MAN!” A woman of God walks in PURPOSE, her confidence is in the Lord! NOTHING is wrong with you the devil plays off low self-esteem, tricking you into believing that you’re not worthy of being pursued or that something is wrong with you. “That’s a lie from the pits of hell!” Don’t allow the devil to play with your mind. Listen…you don’t have to change who you are for any man! The devil is conning. He doesn’t mind who he uses to deceive you. He’ll speak through your family, your parents, your friends, even your kids. I earnestly feel this message is for somebody… Pause for a moment and tell God “Thank you, for hiding me. Thank you, for keeping me. Thank you, for keeping me in a secret place that only the one You made for me can find me. I will not settle…I will wait on You. For they that wait upon the LORD You shall renew thy strength. So, while I wait God…give me discernment and wisdom for where to go and where not to go. For what to say and what not to say. For what to wear and what not to wear. Because I wanna remain KEPT in your arms.” The single life is when you learn to value and respect who you are! Youre fearfully and wonderfully made, you are royalty, you’ve been called and set apart from the world. You don’t need to go to a club. You don’t need to go to a shake joint. You don’t need to dress half naked. Why? Because you’ll attract the wrong men and the wrong kind of attention. Don’t follow what other women are doing. Don’t listen to societies standards, mindset, or values. All that you need to know about yourself is in the word of God. Sometimes you may feel you’re being rejected but it’s God protecting you from the wrong kind of men. There’s a PURPOSE in God’s methods. Concentrate on being God’s woman - God doesn’t want you with just anybody. My mother shared with me that the people you meet in life is sometimes God wanting you to “sow” into their lives. It can be sowing love, compassion, prayer, a word of encouragement, a financial blessing and then you move on. Sometimes we create things into something that were NEVER God’s intention. And now, we have a bigger mess in our hands. God’s will is not for you to hastily and freely give away your heart and body to unworthy men to ultimately end up regretful, heartbroken, and unfulfilled. His will for your life is to build a relationship with HimFIRST before you build a relationship with another man. Become the right woman and the right man will find you what godly man wants a short-tempered woman? What godly man wants a woman who doesn’t obey God or her father? What godly man wants an impatient woman? What godly man wants a woman who can’t handle correction? God has to purge your life. He has to get rid of the jealously, hate, anger, self righteousness, the ‘I don’t need no man’ kind of spirit, bitterness, stubbornness, and your ATTITUDE…that’s a big one! God can’t bless you if you aren’t prepared for the blessing. In other words, God can’t give you a man if you aren’t prepared for a man. Where you are is no accident, God has you in a season of preparation; allow God to work on you. Be willing to sacrifice yourself daily to be shaped, molded, and used by God. “Let not then your good be evil spoken of” (Romans 14:16). You are a woman of standard, modesty, and value! Continue to stay devoted to the LORD and watch Him bring the right godly man to you.
Posted on: Mon, 17 Nov 2014 01:53:10 +0000
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