Last edited 7 days ago by Penbat Psychological manipulation Psychological manipulation is a type of social influence that aims to change the perceptionor behavior of others through underhanded,deceptive, or even abusive tactics.[1] By advancing the interests of the manipulator, often at anothers expense, such methods could be considered exploitative, abusive, devious, and deceptive. Social influence is not necessarily negative. For example, doctors can try to persuade patients to change unhealthy habits. Social influence is generally perceived to be harmless when it respects the right of the influenced to accept or reject and is not unduly coercive. Depending on the context and motivations, social influence may constitute underhanded manipulation. Requirements for successful manipulationEdit According to psychology author George K. Simon, successful psychological manipulation primarily involves the manipulator: concealing aggressive intentions and behaviors.knowing the psychological vulnerabilitiesof the victim to determine what tactics are likely to be the most effective.having a sufficient level of ruthlessness to have no qualms about causing harm to the victim if necessary. Consequently, the manipulation is likely to be accomplished through covert aggressive (relational aggressive or passive aggressive) means.[2] How manipulators control their victimsEdit According to Braiker Clinical psychologist Harriet Braiker wrote aself help book[1] which identified the following basic ways that manipulators control their victims: Positive reinforcement: includes praise,superficial charm, superficial sympathy(crocodile tears), excessive apologizing, money, approval, gifts, attention, facial expressions such as a forced laugh or smile, and public recognition.Negative reinforcement: involves removing one from a negative situation as a reward, e.g. You wont have to do your homework if you allow me to do this to you.Intermittent or partial reinforcement: Partial or intermittent negative reinforcement can create an effective climate of fear and doubt. Partial or intermittent positive reinforcement can encourage the victim to persist - for example in most forms of gambling, the gambler is likely to win now and again but still lose money overall.Punishment: includes nagging, yelling, the silent treatment, intimidation, threats,swearing, emotional blackmail, the guilt trip, sulking, crying, and playing the victim.Traumatic one-trial learning: using verbal abuse, explosive anger, or other intimidating behavior to establish dominance or superiority; even one incident of such behavior can condition or train victims to avoid upsetting, confronting or contradicting the manipulator.According to Simon Simon[2] identified the following manipulative techniques: Lying: It is hard to tell if somebody is lying at the time they do it, although often the truth may be apparent later when it is too late. One way to minimize the chances of being lied to is to understand that some personality types (particularly psychopaths) are experts at the art of lying and cheating, doing it frequently, and often in subtle ways.Lying by omission: This is a very subtle form of lying by withholding a significant amount of the truth. This technique is also used in propagandaDenial: Manipulator refuses to admit that he or she has done something wrong.Rationalization: An excuse made by the manipulator for inappropriate behavior. Rationalization is closely related to spinMinimization: This is a type of denial coupled with rationalization. The manipulator asserts that his or her behavior is not as harmful or irresponsible as someone else was suggesting, for example, saying that a taunt or insult was only a joke.Selective inattention or selective attention: Manipulator refuses to pay attention to anything that may distract from his or her agenda, saying things like I dont want to hear it.Diversion: Manipulator not giving a straight answer to a straight question and instead being diversionary, steering the conversation onto another topic.: Similar to diversion but giving irrelevant, rambling, vague responses, weasel wordsCovert intimidation: Manipulator throwing the victim onto the defensive by using veiled (subtle, indirect or implied) threats. trip: A special kind of intimidation tactic. A manipulator suggests to theconscientious victim that he or she does not care enough, is too selfish or has it easy. This usually results in the victim feeling bad, keeping them in a self-doubting, anxious andsubmissive position.Shaming: Manipulator uses sarcasm and put-downs to increase fear and self-doubt in the victim. Manipulators use this tactic to make others feel unworthy and therefore defer to them. Shaming tactics can be very subtle such as a fierce look or glance, unpleasant tone of voice, rhetorical comments, subtle sarcasm. Manipulators can make one feel ashamed for even daring to challenge them. It is an effective way to foster a sense of inadequacy in the victim.Playing the victim role: Manipulator portrays him- or herself as a victim of circumstance or of someone elses behavior in order to gain pity, sympathy or evokecompassion and thereby get something from another. Caring and conscientious people cannot stand to see anyone suffering and the manipulator often finds it easy to play on sympathy to get cooperation.Vilifying the victim: More than any other, this tactic is a powerful means of putting the victim on the defensive while simultaneously masking the aggressive intent of the manipulator.Playing the servant role: Cloaking a self-serving agenda in guise of a service to a more noble cause, for example saying he is acting in a certain way to be obedient to or in service to an authority figure or just doing their job.Seduction: Manipulator uses charm, praise or overtly supporting others in order to get them to lower their defenses and give their trust and loyalty to him or her.Projecting the blame (blaming others): Manipulator scapegoats in often subtle, hard-to-detect ways.Feigning innocence: Manipulator tries to suggest that any harm done was unintentional or that they did not do something that they were accused of. Manipulator may put on a look of surprise or indignation. This tactic makes the victim question his or her own judgment and possibly his own sanity.Feigning confusion: Manipulator tries to play dumb by pretending he or she does not know what the victim is talking about or is confused about an important issue brought to his or her attention.Brandishing anger: Manipulator uses anger to brandish sufficient emotional intensity andrage to shock the victim into submission. The manipulator is not actually angry, he or she just puts on an act. He just wants what he wants and gets angry when denied. Vulnerabilities exploited by manipulatorsEdit According to Braikers self-help book,[1]manipulators exploit the following vulnerabilities (buttons) that may exist in victims: the disease to pleaseaddiction to earning the approval and acceptance of othersEmotophobia (fear of negative emotion; i.e.a fear of expressing anger, frustration or disapproval)lack of assertiveness and ability to say noblurry sense of identity (with soft personal boundarieslow self-relianceexternal locus of control According to Simon,[2] manipulators exploit the following vulnerabilities that may exist in victims: naïveté - victim finds it too hard to accept the idea that some people are cunning, devious and ruthless or is in denial if he or she is being victimized. - victim is too willing to give manipulator the benefit of the doubt and see their side of things in which they blame the victim.low self-confidence - victim is self-doubting, lacking in confidence and assertiveness, likely to go on the defensive too easily. - victim tries too hard to understand and believes the manipulator has some understandable reason to be hurtful.emotional dependency - victim has asubmissive or dependent personality. The more emotionally dependent the victim is, the more vulnerable he or she is to being exploited and manipulated. Manipulators generally take the time to scope out the characteristics and vulnerabilities of their victim. Kantor advises in his book,[3] the following are vulnerable to psychopathic manipulators: too dependent - dependent people need to be loved and are therefore gullible and liable to say yes to something to which they should say no.too immature - has impaired judgment and believes the exaggerated advertising claims.too naïve - cannot believe there are dishonest people in the world, taking for granted that if there were they would not be allowed to operate.too impressionable - overly seduced bycharmers. For example, they might vote for the seemingly charming politician who kisses babies.too trusting - people who are honest often assume that everyone else is honest. They are more likely to commit themselves to people they hardly know without checking credentials, etc., and less likely to question so-called experts.too lonely - lonely people may accept any offer of human contact. A psychopathic stranger may offer human companionship for a price.too narcissistic - narcissists are prone to falling for unmerited flattery.too impulsive - make snap decisions about, for example, what to buy or whom to marry without consulting others.too altruistic - the opposite of psychopathic: too honest, too fair, too empathetic.too frugal - cannot say no to a bargain even if they know the reason it is so cheap.too materialistic - easy prey for loan sharksor get-rich-quick schemes.too greedy - the greedy and dishonest may fall prey to a psychopath who can easily entice them to act in an immoral way.too masochistic - lack self-respect and so unconsciously let psychopaths take advantage of them. They think they deserve it out of a sense of guilt.the elderly - the elderly can become fatigued and less capable of multi-tasking. When hearing a sales pitch they are less likely to consider that it could be a con. They are prone to giving money to someone with a hard-luck story. See elder abuse Motivations of manipulatorsEdit Manipulators can have various possible motivations, including but not limited to:[1] the need to advance their own purposes and personal gain at virtually any cost to othersa strong need to attain feelings of powerand superiority in relationships with othersa want and need to feel in control (aka.control freaka desire to gain a feeling of power over others in order to raise their perception ofself-esteemboredom, or growing tired of his/her surroundings, seeing it as a game more than hurting others PsychopathyEdit Main article: Psychopathy Being manipulative is in Factor 1 of the Hare Psychopathy Checklist (PCL).[4] Theworkplace psychopath may often rapidly shift between emotions – used to manipulate people or cause high anxiety.[5] Antisocial, borderline and narcissistic personality disordersEdit According to Kernberg, antisocial, borderline, and narcissistic personality disorders are all organized at a borderline level of personality organization,[6] and the three share some common characterological deficits and overlapping personality traits, with deceitfulness[7] and exceptional manipulative abilities being the most common traits among the three. Sociopaths, borderlines, and narcissists are often both physically attractive (narcissists and borderlines in particular) and highly intelligent and can be efficient, persuasive, and incredible liars. Other shared traits include pathological narcissism,[6] consistent irresponsibility,[8]machiavellianism, lack of empathy,[9] cruelty, meanness, impulsivity, self-harm, and addictions[10] interpersonal exploitation, hostility, anger and rage, vanity, emotional instability, rejection sensitivity, perfectionism, use of primitive defence mechanisms that are pathological, immature, and narcissistic. Manipulation to obtain nurturance, approval, attention and control over others is considered by the DSM-IV-TR and many mental health professionals to be a defining characteristic of borderline personahlty disorder. Manipulative behavior is also common to narcissists, who use manipulation to obtain power and narcissistic supply. Those with antisocial personalities will manipulate for material items, power, and a wide variety of other reasons.[11] Histrionic personality disorderEdit Main article: Histrionic personality disorder People with histrionic personality disorder are usually high-functioning, both socially and professionally. They usually have good social skills, despite tending to use them to manipulate others into making them the center of attention.[12] MachiavellianismEdit Main articles: Machiavellianism andMachiavellian intelligence Machiavellianism is a term that some socialand personality psychologists use to describe a persons tendency to be unemotional, and therefore able to detach him or herself from conventional morality and hence to deceiveand manipulate others. In the 1960s, Richard Christie and Florence L. Geis developed a test for measuring a persons level of Machiavellianism (sometimes referred to as the Machiavelli test).[13] In popular cultureEdit In the TV series Minder, Terry McCann is employed as Arthur Daleys minder on vague and ungenerous terms, with it often being hinted that Arthur has manipulated him into this job, and indeed is seen to continue to manipulate Terry throughout the characters run in the series, despite his often attempting to find other means of employment and break free from Arthurs control. See alsoReferencesOther references Read in another language MobileDesktopContent is available under CC BY-SA 3.0 unless otherwise noted.Terms of UsePrivacy
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