Losing a baby from a mans perspective! Its rarely heared, barely understood, Mostly taken as irrelevent, He didnt carry the baby, he wont anything about pain they harshly utter... Bonkers! Heartless and Emotionless beasts MISTAKEN for men do exist, the group that ceases to give a damn about the situation and allow their arrogance to take over and live like no baby was ever created with their sperm! However, REAL MEN do exist, men who feel the pain and deep cut agony as the picture of their babys sonar vividly plays in their head, Men who recall the day she said we are expecting a baby and cry when reality hits him to wake up to cruel situation he is going through, men that blame themselves for being powerless and not being able to save their babies even when realisticly they had no control over the situation, Men who are anguished and vigorously burn within because having to accept what has happened, men who really believe they have been unfairly deprived off their dream of holding their babies in their arms and watching them play and grow up, Men who watch their stillborn babies limbs liveless while they should be reaching and kicking and fall apart because it meant the world to them. BUT Because of society these men are expected to cut off their emotions and tend to the females every need during the time of distress, they are seen as earthlings who have to be directed away from emotions, they are expected to devalue the situation and put up a front that they are perfectly fine and are being strong for the female. Society has it wrong it should be a paradigm shift to most that havent done it, men too have emotions and an emotional capacity just as the female, they may not have carried the baby but still have half their genes in that life that has been created. Society judge not please, I urge you to encourage because miscarriges, stillbirths do affect men just as much as they do with women. #Thoughts #DontJudge #RatherEncourage #Ella
Posted on: Mon, 19 Jan 2015 20:50:16 +0000
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