OK I have a rant to go with this: I am soooo sick of young Mothers who are all about their tan lines, make-up, hair, nails, shopping, selfies, having a man in their life, etc. When are you females going to grow up, wake up, and get your priorities straight?! Your poor kids are confused because a new man is in your life every three months. Imagine how your kids feel about who their Daddy will be for three months over and over again. Imagine their confusion when they come and go like that and the kids feel it is their fault, that theyve done something wrong to make the newest Daddy figure go away when another falls in right behind them. Put yourself in your childs mindset and think about what you are expecting them to deal with! Focus on the main priority in your life, your kids. Youll have plenty of time for a man later! Help your kids to be the BEST they can be by setting a good example yourself. Look at things from their perspective. Do you put unnecessary guilt on your kids? Dont expect little kids to deal with things you personally cannot deal with. If it hurts you, its going to hurt them ten times as much, except it stays in their young minds forever! Now take a good look at the people you let your children hang around because you need a break. Are THEY setting a good example for your kids? If not, keep them the hell away from bad influences! Your kids live what they learn. If you expose your kids to negative people, movies, cartoons, toys, language, behavior, video games, etc., then you will get those things right back from your kids. Stop ripping them apart and start being there as a parent. Stop using them as tools to get back at someone else. Little minds have enough to deal with without the guilt of why your life sucks. Theirs should not. Do not make your personal problems theirs! Let them enjoy the innocence of life instead of throwing them in the ring to deal with your junk.
Posted on: Fri, 28 Mar 2014 21:45:39 +0000
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