ON ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP A colleague fell sick last week. She was admitted into the hospital over the weekend. She resumed this morning recounting what she witnessed. Another lady was admitted into the same ward with her. My colleague said she initially thought the lady was involved in an auto crash going by the degree of injuries she sustained. It was when she (my colleague) was about to be discharged that one man came to visit the said ward mate. As soon as the man came in, the ward mate’s mother pounced on him and started tearing into his skin. The story... The man is (was) the LEGAL husband of the said lady. They are both Igbos and LEARNED. They had their traditional, church and court wedding. The lady came from a well-to-do family. The guy na Ajepako like me. The lady is gainfully employed. The guy is a house husband, still job hunting. According to the STUPID WIFE, anytime the guy fell into depression, he would beat her silly at the slightest provocation. He even beat her one day to the point of losing a pregnancy. The last beating that led her to the hospital where my colleague met her was due to her WEARING A REVEALING TOP WITHIN THEIR HOUSE AFTER GETTING BACK FROM WORK. The husband accused her of showing off HIS PROPERTIES to other neighbours. In order to teach her how a married woman should dress, because the wife refused to change the top, he removed his belt and put her into shape. Fortunately for her, she only had swollen face, torn ear (right one o), and tears on both thighs and back that doctor would have to stitch. Neighbours and colleagues were streaming in to see Madam Married Woman but the husband never came until five days after the wife was admitted. Dem say shame dey catch am. Lest I forget, neighbours said that’s how Mr. Husband had been putting his wife into shape every time o. The neighbours even begged the wife’s parents not to allow her go back to the man. Colleagues corroborated the story. They claimed they’d seen Madam Married Woman with wounds they suspected could have been inflicted on her by her Olowoori. Conclusion... Please, dey form good girl who shouldn’t leave her husband’s house because you mustn’t divorce. Woo, na your dead body dem go carry comot from that house. Maybe you’re thinking, “the arm of the law will catch up with him”, chai! You be learner o! Ten years after you’re long dead, buried and forgotten, the case is still dragging in court. PLEASE, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! FLEE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, ABUSIVE MARRIAGE! He who fights and runs today, lives to fight another day! You’re considering your children? Take them along with you, if you can. If not, leave them FOR NOW! If you die, those children will surely survive it! RUN NOW TO BE ABLE TO FIGHT THE FIGHT! You are in a relationship; he slaps you when he’s provoked. Woo Miss Learner, he go use you practise boxing in marriage. You love him abi and he loves you too! #Essorait ! Please don’t come to disturb us asking for advice when the bubble bursts o! NB: I’M NOT AN ADVOCATE OF DIVORCE, BUT WISDOM IS PROFITABLE TO DIRECT IS WHAT MY BIBLE TELLS ME. Kindly permit whatever error you see in this piece. It was done in a haste.
Posted on: Wed, 05 Nov 2014 09:59:53 +0000
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