One Page Wonder 113 (Missing) Some of you may have realized that last week’s One Page Wonder went missing. That may have been a calculated decision to actually see if anyone else realized there was no story to read. On the other hand it may have been because I had nothing positive to write. In recent weeks my mindset has struggled due to some interesting, maybe even dumb, decisions I have made concerning my career path. They have adversely affected my family and myself and have really challenged my self esteem. There were times when I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep and essentially time stood still as self doubt pushed through. It has been difficult and way out of my comfort zone where I appear to like certainty. Through all of this my wonderful wife has been amazing in steering the ship to a course that will eventually work out for us. She has balanced two jobs, where both employers fitted around her shifts, because they value the quality she brings to their workplace. It has been tough and though everybody said things would work out I had my doubts and my time machine was broken so I couldn’t go back. Actually I never wanted to go back; I only had wanted more clarity on my initial decisions. The key element was I never blamed anyone else for my failed decisions, I made them and so I had to take responsibility and find a better way. I have learned many lessons in recent weeks and as long as I understand my thought process it will be beneficial moving forward. One of my key learning’s was how an amazing business idea I had wouldn’t work because those that it would have benefitted from it didn’t share my passion. This is a great trap that many people in small business fall into believing that their idea is so fantastic that it cannot fail. Of course if no-one shares your vision then it is doomed to fail. I have no doubt that my idea will work, I only need a better way to sell the message so I shall work on it some more. In the meantime I found myself in a position where the skills I have developed in recent years have some benefit to others. This of course is heartwarming as it is nice to feel some type of connection with others because I am sure the scrap heap is not so great. In the near future I expect some action happening and a way forward to appear. That is a good thing as I have much to offer in many areas and it would be a shame to waste my life’s experiences and my knowledge. What about yourself, have you ever wondered how by combining all of the areas of expertise and skills you have developed over time, on what opportunities you may be able to create? We all have our own little niches that are unique to us but too often get into the rut and as time goes by we get swallowed up by the system and nothing changes. Step outside and see what may lie in store for you, however only take it if you really believe in it. With so much time to think in recent weeks I found myself running all types of scenarios through my head and there was a time when nothing worked. That was tough as it is an unknown area for me but there are times when out of desperation comes opportunity and it is what you do with those situations that matter. “Opportunities are like buses, there is always another one coming; however you must know which is the right one to take”. Yep, I have been there and I am pretty sure I have taken the right one, though only time will tell. So when life throws you lots of curve balls and difficult situations, hang tough and look for the right move that will serve you best. It is normally there though clouded thinking disguises it somewhat and installs roadblocks. Be rest assured there is always something better around the corner if you keep seeking it so remember never give in. So by the way “I’m back”. Have a great week Rodney Tattam 8th October 2013
Posted on: Sat, 05 Oct 2013 21:48:52 +0000
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