Post from a fellow friend Asking for advice. As many of you are aware, after the devaluation stage, when the narcissist is done with you, he usually runs a smear campaign. I separated from my ex in September when I found out about NPD and realized what kind of monster I was living with. Since then, he has created a blog dedicated to discussing his issues with me and blasting me as a Terrible mother, selfish, evil woman, trying to tear me down, heartless, cruel, manipulative, keeping our child from me for her own financial gain. He has created over 20 blog posts detailing lie after lie and twisting my character into a caricature of myself. From the way he talks, I could have been Al Capones reincarnation. The funny thing is, the things he called me where the traits he has exhibited through the course of our marriage. This has garnered all of his friends (even our mutual friends) to declare war against me and treat me like dirt. He also talked about killing himself in the blog and blamed me for his suicidal thoughts. When I saw that, I decided to file for divorce in December and ask for supervised visits only. My ex is not a clinically diagnosed Narcissist, but a spade is a spade. Have any of you dealt with an ex bashing you on social media without any type of consequences? What about an ex threatening suicide? Is this a normal npd trait? I am worried that because he is not diagnosed, a judge will think he is fit to care for our 2 year old daughter alone, and putting her in the hands of a truly evil human.
Posted on: Thu, 22 Jan 2015 01:25:44 +0000