Reviewing Judi James called, “Being confident There are people who are struggling in life, not because they are failures or can’t cope; the reason is that they are not confident. We are looking at Judi opening our eyes on confidence. What is the author talking about? About lack of confidence that it deters opportunities. Judi says we carry billboards with slogans saying, “We are nothing; we are not important.” This makes people to move away from us thinking that they don’t love us, the reality is that they are running away from our dullness. She also says we can lift up the billboard with slogans saying, we are respectful, loving, and eye-catching. Being positive open doors What is confidence exactly? To be able speak up, boldly To be able to listen to other people Looking after people who are confident What does it mean to lack confidence? Sitting at the back when you are supposed to take the front seat. Lying to get out of things and be invisible Reminding yourself of all your mistakes and failures instead of moving forward Hating confident people Trying to please everyone Turning up at social event with ready-made excuse for leaving early Being unable to make decision How do you tell if one lacks confidence? Bite nails Be quiet Say yen even if she is supposed to say no Always want people to pity her Swim in a dam of self-pity How to improve your confidence Don’t waste time looking for problems in life that make you lack confidence Stop making people your scapegoats Start taking control of your life How do you revive your confidence? Your body language must correspond with what you utter with your mouth and press on. Identify problems you are facing, and see if there is anything you can do to change it, if there is no solution, move on. Choose what you say, if it won’t give you good results, rather say nothing Learn to listen to others during your conversation Dress properly, respected and be clean. Who is suitable to read this book? Mostly young people who are looking for employment If your partner introduces you to his family, show them that you are confident Make sure you are representable, and watch what you say In a relationship, don’t be shy, that will cause your partner to dump you Dress the way that will entice your partner or long to be with you. Don’t you dare criticise negatively the way your partner dresses up or does not look attractive. It will demoralise her spirit. Exercise, if you don’t you will chase your partner away.
Posted on: Thu, 09 Oct 2014 05:34:03 +0000