Seeing success in the eyes of someone else >>> “Sometimes you can’t see yourself clearly until you see yourself through the eyes of others.” It is really nice when you have someone that believes in you enough for the both of you. I discovered that I had someone else in my corner today, someone that’s always been in my corner but I guess I just didnt really see it from my good friend Cindy Derbyshire who is very motivating. We spoke about me on Skype a few weeks ago and my business s the way that I have to express it to and its made me more energized about it again. I was starting to believe that it was just too late for me to take my brand and my business and become the success that I had always dreamed of being. Today when I saw myself through her eyes the way she says and see things I feel like I had already accomplished so much. She reminded me of all of the plans that I had laid out in my mind around the time that we first connected on Facebook and i pinpointed all of my goals that I had actually managed to accomplish thus far. I don’t really know why I hadnt realized that I am not exactly at the starting point but rather somewhere further on than anticipated . I know that Cindy is going to read this and say‘I told you all of that stuff already and it’s not that I didnt hear her but hearing it from someone who I didnt realize was paying attention somehow has a different affect. I knew that Cindy had confidence in me and that he thought I was capable of many things but I never saw just how fiercely she believed in me. It’s always interesting to see yourself through someone else’s eyes because a lot of the times you find that you are only seeing what hasnt been done when they are looking at the bigger picture. They are looking at what your goals were to begin with, and what strides you have already made towards those goals and they see the potential of you finishing those goals. I don’t know why it sometimes seems so hard for me to look at myself and my life the way that others seem to see it but I am starting to get the message now. If I keep stopping at every bench mark on my road map of success and picking apart everything that I had already done and diminishing it into being nothing then that’s what it will amount to nothing. Holding up someone else’s mirror to your life is very revealing and meaningful because you can’t always see what someone else sees. Sometimes it takes the vision of someone else to make clear to you that you are on the right path.
Posted on: Sat, 23 Aug 2014 14:45:31 +0000
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