Sooo, my son just came to me because he is having some problems in school with a group of kids. They are smart enough to not put their hands on him but they are starting to irritate him to he point he almost broke down. I said some things that nobody but God put in my mouth to say to him and I wanted to share them because I know that plenty of people have children in these schools who are going through something. Many do not share them with their parents. 1. Do not let THEIR dysfunction cause you to Malfunction. 2. Dont let them in my house, if you do, they need to pay some bills.* 3. Dont let them control what you can and cannot have. Let me clarify, #1 is simply that they are the ones who are dysfunctional and you cannot allow their words or actions cause you to break down in any manner (or malfunction.) #2 When you come home home thinking about the things they say or do, they are occupying space in your thoughts and mind and anyone occupying space in my house has to pay bills up in here. and #3 When you start acting out because of what they say or do, you are the one who lose your electronics and privileges. Why would you let them take your things away. My son immediately looked at me and said wow mom, that is deep. It shocked me to even hear him say those words. He then said I will not let their dysfunctional selves make me malfunction any more. Now Im mad that they took my electronics away but I know better now. I am so proud of my son for opening up to me about what he was going through. Make no mistake I am not happy about it but I know that he will handle things differently when dealing with them and their ignorance. We as parents have to stay in tuned with our children and what is going on because he could have kept things boggled inside and exploded one day because of someone elses dysfunction. Share with fellow parents, we all have to stick together to raise these children. #immomanddad
Posted on: Sat, 10 Jan 2015 04:03:22 +0000
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