This idea of Holy matrimony is true bullshit...The idea of giving your love exclusively to ONE person and trying to maintain that throughout an entire life is absolutely wrong in my opinion. Selfish, Repressive, Uncreative, Nonspiritual, Egocentric, Unhealthy and a fantasy maintained by people interested in controlling human desire. And controlling other people! Thats not love. Thats control. A fantasy, A hand-me-down and something ugly. In my opinion, its just wrong. And wrong to expect that somebody with a heart capable of loving many people and with a desire to love many people and a natural inclination to express that love (who should be free to do as they please because thats human nature and the ideal of human freedom) should have their heart bound in chains by this horrible idea of monogamy that doesnt exist in the first place. People should not expect that monogamy is going to make them happy! How many people get married multiple times thinking each time that the person theyre marrying is THE ONE AND ONLY!? Every time they got married they thought that! And they were told it was a good desire to have. That monogamy is something that would make them happy. Thats pure fantasy and nonsense. Its an illusion. People should be free to have many loves, many relationships, many affairs! AND whats more? The institution of marriage as we know it now with its monogamy is a gamble on the illusion of monogamy being normal in the first place. Look at how many divorces there are in the world? And the people re-marry again and again. Its pure idiocy. Im writing about a radical change in the way people think of marriage and love and commitment. But if two people are truly happy together, and they think they can maintain that for a lifetime, I think the statistics show that theyre going against the odds in a big way. I think if people truly love each other, then they should be able to accept each other as being fully human and not expect for there to be no other relationships or loves with others. I think THAT is normal. To settle down with a Queen or a King, a soulmate perhaps, who truly accepts you as you are is very rare. Im also talking about being fully mature and honest with that person when it comes to the other people, the other affairs, the other loves. Marriage should be just that. A commitment to love each other through total acceptance. HAD to write all of this! I use this medium called Facebook as a way to express myself sometimes. A way to express myself about certain issues. But unlike a diary, its public. Please excuse the length as I dont yet have an editor working with me. hahahaha! Its just a place to express myself for me. I hope anybody who reads this, enjoys it on some level. And its okay to completely disagree with all of it or any of it. Im open to many beliefs. I just dont think they all apply to me! God bless
Posted on: Sat, 05 Jul 2014 06:34:02 +0000
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