With 11 days left to 2014, it is time to do something similar to what we did together at Thanksgiving. The wheel turns and we will soon by seeing light increase in our lives. Please spend some time thinking about what you will leave in 2014, and what you will strive for in 2015. It is the time to let go of the people, places and things that hold you back. It is the time to cut the ties that bind. It is also the time to realize how precious life is, and to let go of resentments and move forward. Try not to carry into the new year old arguments with loved ones and friends. If you keep them going, they will simply plague you in the new year. So let go and allow the magic of the season to move you in ways that are positive and life-affirming. Here is my list so far: 1. I am letting go of the pain regarding the death of John Allee and will work to celebrate his life in 2015. I have grieved but now it is also the time to remember and smile. 2. I am embracing my new projects and work without any further regret about the life I had. It simply does not exist anymore. I have changed, my situation has changed and the shift needs to begin. 3. I am learning to adjust to what is, rather than what was. As any widow/er or divorcee can attest to, I have learned the value of real friends and felt the sting of the friends of convenience. I am ready to embrace the new people in my life and the golden shining ones who have suffered with me through my loss. In a ritual,Dec 2, I let go of those who I still cared for, but who did not care for me. The results are already coming to pass, and I feel lighter as I was the one holding on to what was nothing. Life changes, life shifts. No blame, no regrets. Move on. There is something better around the corner. 4. I am going to continue to branch out with my career and my hobbies. Money is a necessary evil. It can cause stress and force you to stay in situations or relationships that are toxic. It can also help others and move forward - use it wisely, but do not let it create toxicity in your life. Money can not bring back a loved one who has passed over. Worse, if it brings back or brings you a loved one, you shall never know if they love you or your portfolio. Choose wisely. 5. I am learning to accept gifts and help. Those who really care show their caring in the most unique ways - watch and see! 6. I am taking back my self-esteem. Disabled does not mean anything more than I can not sit or stand for long periods of time. My neck and spine may be damaged - my heart and head continue to function better than most, in my humble opinion. 7. I am not going to be bullied by friends or others. No one can tell you who your other friends are. Sometimes even you can not. Judge by actions rather than empty words or gossip. 8. I am not going to compromise my beliefs. Those who do not respect the dead are disrespectful, bottom line.Those who are closed minded do not deserve to talk with me until their mind will allow a crack of light. Make an effort to avoid people like that. 9. I am going to recognize that life in itself is a gift. Being left behind is hard, but there is a reason for everything. I am going to accept this challenge to live life to the fullest. 10. I am going to leave a positive legacy when I transition and I am going to work on Johns legacy to be as informative and enlightening as he wanted it to be. Happy Holidays! Merry Christmas! Happy Yule! and a very Happy New Year! and what do you plan to manifest for 2015!
Posted on: Sat, 20 Dec 2014 21:47:40 +0000
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