With this one, patience is the word. Hes not naughty or defiant, - TopicsExpress



          

With this one, patience is the word. Hes not naughty or defiant, hes unsure. His aggressive acting out as a result of some level of frustration at a combination of needs that werent being met. Clearly, we need to meet those needs before we ask too much of him. Yes, we ask him to face his fears, but throwing him in the deep end and insisting he swim is a mistake. Some individuals need to be pushed harder than others. But, they all need to feel safe. None of them need to question the stability of their leader(s). Whether its tough love, or gentle encouragement, it has to be with fairness, consistency, clarity and patience. Luckily, he has parents who love him and who are more than willing to learn the program so that his needs continue to be met. Some more boot camp to go...but bright future for this case.
Posted on: Mon, 15 Dec 2014 21:22:21 +0000

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