YOU ARE A BITTER PERSON: Verbal and Emotional Cruelty A bitter person might temporarily purge their inner hurt and anger by saying things and doing things that hurt the feelings of others. Somehow, it makes the bitter individual feel better for a minute to see someone else suffer as they perceive themselves to be unfairly suffering. Hatred Sometimes feelings of anger and inner pain rise to the level of genuine loathing. The more chronic or intense the bitterness a person has, the more likely they are to develop feelings of hatred. Vindictive Frequently on the lookout for perceived slights, bitter people often look for ways to get back at those they view as having neglected, abused, disrespected, or ignored them. Vengeful and spiteful, they seek to cause anguish in the life of the person whom they view as being insufficiently caring or concerned about them. Animosity and Resentment It’s hard for the bitter soul to experience joy at the success or well-being of others. Instead, the bitter person views the good fortune of someone else as more evidence that they have not been given a fair shake themselves. Implacability Sometimes, there is simply no pleasing a bitter person. Although others might be manipulated at times into attempting to soothe the pain they’re in, the bitter person cannot really be placated by an external source because the root of their unhappiness is strictly internal. Antagonism When a person is chronically bitter, they’re often in the process of looking for a fight. If no immediate opportunity exists for a battle, they might just provoke one. They’ll say or do something to get a ruckus started. After it’s over, they feel a little better, while the victim is only embittered toward them. 1. Your relationship with God is not what it once used to be. 2. You have compromised your morals or others lifestyles condemned in the Bible. 3. You hardly read your Bible. 4. You cant stand when your enemies get blessed. 5. You find others to agree with you to come against the object of your bitterness. 6. You have no desire to pray for the person you hate. 7. You start gossiping about them. 8. You cant stand hearing others speak highly of them. 9. You have an obsession with the person you cant stand. 10. You no longer serve Gods people in any ministry. 11. You find yourself always saying something derogatory about the person. 12. You cant wait until you can spew your feelings of hate on them. Bitterness is a deadly poison that needs to be brought into the light and addressed in order to bring many people out of spiritual, emotional and even physical bondage. Bitterness is a means for defilement and countless sickness and diseases are a result of bitterness.
Posted on: Mon, 05 Jan 2015 02:15:58 +0000
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