Zane, Ive been married a little over a year. Duting this time my husband began to stop wearing his ring. That made me feel a sense of disrespect but thats just the beginning. M husband walked out and left my 3 kids and I about a month ago. He said he left because Im insecure and question him about his fb page. If I see something I feel is disrespectful then I think I have the right to ask about it. He immediately blows up and starts calling me out my name. Since hes been gone we have tried to come together once and have time with the kids but that was a nightmare. I found a phone he was trying to hide. When I turned it on and it finished booting up, text msgs from a female start coming through. Of course when I approached him he got mad after laughing at me for crying and ended the day with the kids before it even started. I dnt know what to do anymore. Before all of this, we were looking to purchase a home. Due to the fact that his credit score wasnt high enough he couldnt be on the loan. So I was going to go ahead and go through with the process. He told me that if I bought a home w/o him being on the loan that he would divorce me. So I didnt go through with the home purchase. I started finding ways to increase his score, like adding him to my personal credit cards. I dnt understand why my push for him to be the head of our household like the bible refers is such a horrible thing. Im tired of trying to get him to see the bigger picture of how we are blessed with the family we asked for and now its like a slap in the face to God because we have allowed simple things come between our marriage. Im tired of being put in a position were I have to compete with other females when IM HIS WIFE. Please give me some advice. -Heartbroken Wife- MY RESPONSE: Throw that Cane Corso back into the kennel. He does not deserve you as a wife and he is not bringing a thing to the table. Any man who would laughs at his wife as she is crying is not a man and he needs to go on about his business. He is doing nothing but showing you disrespect and he has a total disregard of your feelings. You can do so much better and no, you should not have to compete with other broads for his attention. He does not see it as a blessing so stop blocking yours by getting rid of that baggage. Purchase you a home for you and your children and go on with your lives.
Posted on: Sun, 02 Nov 2014 18:46:22 +0000
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