warning: Rant in effect.... Things are about to get REALLY R.E.A.L!!! You may just want to keep scrolling on by ... I normally Would NOT post something like this, but sometimes YOU JUST HAVE TO stand up for yourself, speak out & SPEAK THE TRUTH! How CAN a ”Man” NOT WANT TO BE A PART OF THEIR OWN CHILDS Life???!!! , Not visit ,them, call or text to check on them- Not want to be involved in their life whats so ever.. ??? NOT even at the LEAST BIT, help provide/help support for their own blood/child... Not a penny!!! ??? I have COURT ORDERS on the non-custodial parents! And TO TOP IT OFF... they have the oddasity to tell lies &/or talk crap, although they know Im a devoted & Good MOTHER!! People that Truly know Me, KNOW THIS without a doubt & so do my children!!!!! The ONLY time I receive any child support IS through Levies, Federal & State Income taxes intercepted or income assignments/ part Of their paycheck forcibly TAKEN from their Employer.... RARELY, IF EVER- willingly on their own efforts and integrity! They ALL are still in arrearage. I take full responsibility of my children & take blame/ will own up to partial fault, due to procreating With irresponsible partners... But to my defense- My first child I had at 16-young & dumb (BUT STILL -I Was responsible from the get go) , 2nd child at 23yrs old and 3rd child at 31yrs old and Was completely deceived by the the last two kids Fathers.. And If I had known they were that way, then MY KIDS WOULDNT be here... So NO Regrets!! Also, Although, none Of my children were ACTUALLY planned, they ALL have been NOT Only a great responsibility, BUT THE GREATEST BLESSINGS IN MY LIFE. MY CHILDREN ARE my FIRST PRIORITY, ALWAYS HAVE BEEN, they ARE MY LIFE!!! So, before anyone thinks Of commenting something rude or crappy... Know your facts!!... FACTS-Not meaning- ”what you think you know”, because someone led you to believe their lies!! . I have made many mistakes in my past but I have /& still am- learning from them!! And I have owned Up to the consequences Of my choices! I may have done things backwards .... Had 2 kids, With two different partners- unmarried, BUT I also did the third one in the proper order, by marrying first, then years later- had our child.... Yes- I am divorced now, but you would be too, if your spouse had stolen from you, abandoned you & the children- All throughout the marriage, cheated on you Not Only With other women but also, men, With CD,TV,SM,TG, ETC, Was verbally abusive, a pathological liar, unreliable, financially irresponsible, he Lived a double life x quadruple... and thats just to mention a few Of What I endured in my marriage!! .... (oh, and for those that want to question Any of this - I have the physical proof and plenty of witnesses to back ALL I have said=FACTS!) I was a great wife & gave 110%, forgave endlessly, but It Was always something else With him, so yes I filed for divorce! It takes two to make a marriage work... I took my vows seriously.. Yet he did NOT! Annnnnd remember... It takes two to tango & two to make a baby- Yet, IM THE ONLY PARENT MY KIDS HAVE! Im mom and dad- 365 days per year, 24/7... I am Santa, toothfairy, easterbunny, Etc, I AM The ONE WHO IS AND ALWAYS has PROVIDED FOR MY CHILDREN, I AM THEIR ONLY SECURITY AND THEIR ONLY CONSTANT.... raised them by myself, taken care Of ALL their physical, emotional, spiritual & monetary needs!! So, if anyone feels like ”judging ME”, for posting this... Judge THAT!! Besides, Im just speaking facts! Its HONESTLY so frustrating WHEN The OTHER parent doesnt even attempt to be responsible and help the least bit! You WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND the Daily Struggles Someone has, unless you have been in their shoes!! I have MY PRIORITIES STRAIGHT!! Although, I wont put their name on here... They know WHO they are!! I HAVE BEEN THOUGH HELL AND BACK, NUMEROUS OF TIMES.... ANNNND IM STILL STANDING STRONG!! CANT NOBODY KEEP ME DOWN! ”God give Me the strength to accept the things I cannot change, the wisdom to know the difference....” #STRUGGLES#selfishdeadbeatparents#toomanyofthemoutthere#soonerorlateritwillcatchuptothem#TRUTH#EXPOSED
Posted on: Fri, 19 Sep 2014 20:06:07 +0000
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