I was just asked again this evening by another mama how I stay positive when the father of Silas has chosen to abandon his own son. I will put this out there once in case it can help ease some of the hurt for other women feeling low, and I wont speak of it again: The initial shock will turn to rage, then it will turn to sadness. The sadness will fade as you see your babys face light up and smile every day because of the love YOU give. Eventually youll feel disgust at the other human who has chosen to disregard this life. And then as you see your beautiful infant grow and laugh and smile, youll feel sadness again. But not for yourself or for your baby, but for the other persons miserable existance. You WILL regain your power, your strength, your motivation, your happy. Try not to think about the future, about that horrid moment when they ask about their dad. Because that WILL bum you out. That will fall in place, and if you raise them with enough love, they may not WANT to know. Never, EVER underestimate your own strength or ability to be a good parent and there is NOTHING you cant get through and rise ABOVE. Remember, you are better than ANYONE who turns their back on a baby. You are beautiful and worthy of so much more, ladies! Peace, light, and love from your mama-friend ~ Bailey
Posted on: Thu, 25 Sep 2014 01:15:01 +0000
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