Here are five characteristics of a narcissist: A lack of empathy for anyone else. Narcissists are unable to see other peoples pain even when that pain is imposed by their own actions. It is as if they cannot see any viewpoint but their own. In fact, if you try to get them to understand they have hurt you, they will usually show contempt and disdain for your weakness. MY COMMENTS----But they can see the pain of those who are in no way near the EXPERTISE of themselves. A sense of entitlement or special treatment. The narcissist expects to be treated special and expects that his/her wishes will be complied with. This expectation doesnt allow others to have different opinions, say no, or have needs. If you refuse to do what they want, you will be threatened, blamed, and made to feel guilty. MY COMMENTS--- there is no bargaining or settlement or desire to make time to talk. If you dont comply even with any degree of commands theyll put forever roadblocks. An exaggerated view of oneself. Narcissists do not have an accurate self assessment. They have an inflated view of their abilities, achievements, brilliance, or talent. They dont hesitate to talk about themselves or to flaunt their high view of themselves and expect others to recognize this superiority. MY COMMENTS---They always talk about their accomplishments, and personal life, even to those they dont really know. Its all about see Im better and know more. Lack of respect for others individuality. You do not exist as a separate person with your own needs, opinions, desires, and individuality; instead, you exist as an extension of the narcissist. Your boundaries, needs, and opinions wont be respected because they dont matter; the only thing that matters is what the narcissist feels, needs, wants, and believes. MY COMMENTS--- They will almost never initiate a conversation or at least want a conversation with those they think dont comply with their character or ideas. An inability to introspect. When you try to get narcissists to look at themselves, you will find them extremely defensive. They are not willing to admit they are wrong, to admit they are afraid, to admit they are weak, or to admit they are narcissists. They will react angrily, manipulatively, punitively, and arrogantly to your criticism and suggestions. MY COMMENTS--- this is impossible to confront. one will never be able to express a different viewpoint to a narcisssists unless its mixed with a lot of praise for the person. They might say they are wrong but will not say what they are wrong about. Article Source: EzineArticles/7005807
Posted on: Mon, 20 Oct 2014 01:29:21 +0000
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