MAKING THE LIE MAKE SENSE. When denial (his/hers or ours) can no longer hold and we finally have to admit to ourselves that we’ve been lied to, we search frantically for ways to keep it from disrupting our lives. So we rationalize. We find “good reasons” to justify his/her lying, just as s/he almost always accompanies his/her confessions with “good reasons” for dem lies. S/He tells us that,she/he only lied because…. We tell ourslves she only lied because…. ?? We make excuses for him/her: The lying wasn’t significant/Everybody lies/S/He’s only human/I have no right to judge her or hm. Allowing the lies to register in our consciousness means having to make room for any number of frightening possibilities: • She’s not the woman I thought she was.>hes not the man I thought he was. • The relationship has spun out of control and I don’t know what to do • The relationship may be over.Most women will do almost anything to avoid having to face these truths. Even if we yell and scream at him when we discover that he’s lied to us, once the dust settles, most of us will opt for the comforting territory of rationalization. In fact, many of women are willing to rewire their senses, short-circuit their instincts and intelligence, and accept the seductive comfort of self-delusion. Earn $300 online jobs,click monthlyyouth /?ref=240014
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