Must Lovey Signs to know Your Boyfriend is a Liar Catching a liar in action can be pretty tricky. Falsely accusing someone can start a big fight, but at the same time, you dont want to seem too naive. So how do you know for sure if your boyfriend is lying to you? Ive put together 10 signs that your boyfriend might be a liar. Keep these things at the back of your mind. Also keep in mind that these arent foolproof - the truth is, there are some people out there who are great liars and are hard to catch in the act. But in general, these will be helpful for figuring out whether or not hes a liar: Hes not acting like himself: Usually when someone lies, they feel a little uncomfortable and worried about getting caught. If your boyfriend is lying to you about something big, chances are his attitude will change a little bit. If hes usually really open with you and very happy and hes suddenly being secretive and jumpy, that may be a sign that something is up. He doesnt look at you: Pay attention to your boyfriends body language whenever hes telling you something that you think hes lying about, or whenever you ask him if hes lying. Will he look you in the eye? If hell look anywhere except at you, thats a good sign that hes not being honest. Its hard to look in the eyes of someone you care about and boldly lie. If you think hes full of it, say, look me in the eyes and say it. If he cant do it, hes probably lying. His story is never the same: Lying can be difficult, especially if youre lying about something complicated. Pay attention to the details your boyfriend gives you when hes telling you something. Wait a few days, and then ask for the same story again. If some things dont add up, it could be because they didnt happen. If this happens more than a few times, it could mean hes making stuff up and isnt good at keeping track of everything. He gets super defensive: How does your boyfriend react when you accuse him of lying? If he gets super, super defensive, it might mean hes lying and is freaking out about getting caught. This one is tricky, because its completely natural to get defensive whenever youre accused of fibbing, whether you did it or not. However, if your boyfriends response is over-the-top, it could mean hes in panic mode. There are a lot of long pauses: According to Cosmopolitan, long pauses before an answer are a sign that hes not telling you the truth. If he pauses for a minute before answering or repeats the question before responding, he could be giving himself time to come up with an answer. He accuses you of lying all the time: Sometimes when people feel guilty about their own lies, they try to shift the blame a little bit. If your guy is constantly accusing you of breaking his trust, it may be because he feels bad about breaking your trust. Or, if he counteracts your probing question with one of his own, he could just be trying to distract you. He never gives you any details: Do you think your boyfriend is lying about who he was hanging out with earlier? Try to ask some innocent-sounding questions like, what did you do?. Dont grill him for details, but ask a few questions. If he keeps saying, Um, I dont know or I dont remember or if he blows up about it, its probably because he doesnt have any real details to give you. Hes super weird with his phone: I would never advise you to take a secret peek at your boyfriends phone, but keeping an eye on how he acts with it is okay if you suspect hes lying. Does he constantly keep it with him, even if hes just running to the bathroom? Does he freak out if you touch it when it goes off? If hes crazy private about his phone, it could be because theres stuff in there he doesnt want you to see. He has a history of lying: If your boyfriend has a history of lying to you, what makes you think that this time is going to be any different? If hes lied to you once or twice about little things, that doesnt mean he should never be trusted. But if hes fibbed about some major stuff before, he could very easily be doing it again. You have a gut feeling: Honestly, in the end, you really need to go with your gut. You can go through all of the steps above and still not find out for sure if hes a liar. But if you have a serious gut feeling that hes being dishonest, then you probably have that for a reason. Trust yourself - dig deep down to see if you really believe hes lying or not. Sometimes we have these feelings because were right
Posted on: Thu, 15 Jan 2015 18:28:07 +0000
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