People asked me why I always write a lot about love and relationships, it’s because I went through a lot in my past relationships and I have learned how precious a woman heart and loves is. I used to be a so called player and a heartbreaker. I was a guy who could not give a damn about anything but myself. I had an “I don’t care attitude” and I had a hard heart that wasnt so easy to break down. But one day I met this woman who made me fall in real love when I thought I couldnt fall in love again. She had pure love because I could feel it flowing in every part of my body. We could make a good admirable couple. But as you know love, one day she just woke up and she changed out of the blue. At first I took it as joke but her days with me were done. It’s like she was just a tourist to my life. I did all my damnedest to make her stay but it was in vain. She had made a final decision. She just broke my heart and dumped it like sh#t. It was a terrible heartbreak that affected my life and the special people around me and it lasted for a long period of time. Actually it made me feel the pain that I could give those women who really loved me. I learnt a lot from it and it shaped me to who I am today. I learnt to value people’s feelings, how to apologize, to be faithful, caring, forgiving, loving, trustworthy… and I’m applying all those things into my future relationship now because I don’t want it also turn out like the way the other one did. I want it to be my last. Never play with people’s hearts and feelings. If someone loves you and you don’t love them, tell them. Yeah, they’ll be hurt but it will save them from wasting their time. Don’t keep them around and don’t use them for your own benefit. And if you’re in a relationship with someone who adores you so much, appreciate their love and care and return it. Don’t take it for granted because you never know who is dying to replace you.
Posted on: Thu, 23 Oct 2014 15:40:28 +0000