Thanks katya,USA (Break Up Advice Counselor) Today at 4:36 AM Hi Enthu, Thank you for writing and sharing your story. I appreciate you being vulnerable with me. It sounds like you went through something very painful. But, its been a year now and its time to let it go. You are a young woman and you sound like you are beautiful inside and out. Maybe you dont want to hear me say this, but you have a long life ahead of you. You have so much more love to give. You know, I went through a crazy relationship when I was 18, too. I thought he was the one, and I thought we were going to spend our lives together. Then when it ended I was crushed, and it took me a long time to get over it. That breakup hurt my future relationships and it hurt me. I dont want you to have to go through the same thing. Enthu, are you religious? Do you believe in a higher power? If not, do you believe that you have an inner guide that knows your path, even when you feel lost? I believe in these things and its what helps me go through life with confidence, knowing that I am going to find the man of my dreams and that he will want to be with me... and that I would NEVER have to force him to be with me. Believe in the present moment, and let go of those memories that are now merely fantasies. Have confidence for yourself and see this man for who he really is. Someone who didnt have the courage to be honest with you up front, and instead he strung you along because he was a coward. I dont mean to sound harsh. But I want you to really look at that. Do you want to be with a man who, if you stayed together, might have cheated on you with that other girl? What if he did, and you couldnt get him to stop? And that went on for the rest of your life? Is this the life that you would have wanted for yourself. Let go of the memories of him. Stay active in your life. Volunteer your time, and give to people who have less than you. Be passionate about something and get involved in a hobby. Your mind is preoccupied too much with him, take up that time with other things. I promised it will get better. Love yourself by taking care of you. Know that you have a beautiful life ahead of you. Have faith that there is a man who wants to be with you, and would never treat you the way this man did. Believe that you deserve better! Start doing these things and write back to me. with gratitude, Katya
Posted on: Tue, 15 Oct 2013 09:15:47 +0000
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