The real difficulty with love for humans is that it is really voluntarily.. We often want to control love, we want people to agree with us or we want them to like us the way WE want them to do it. Instead of letting them free and loving them anyway.. We want to hammer them to understand what we are saying or if we do not receive the reverence we feel we deserve, we can easily get annoyed or take it personally. Maybe we could even call it common to say off course to this line of thinking.. But this is the complexity of the way we see love and the way God view love. The difference between earthly, worldly and demonic love that is to steal other peoples energies.. And the heavenly LOVE (Agape) that is to freely give no matter what you receive back. Whether someone spit in your face or kick you in down in the dirt. You still love them… Love in itself have to be based on a volunteer basis. You can never force it on anybody. You cannot demand it from someone. You cannot make someone love you by forcing them down to the ground. Watch how it releases you from all kinds of pains and when you know you can only give, and just not really expect anything back. When you release the people around you from the expectance of receiving something in return.. Many times this is what makes us stop giving because we are afraid others will feel they have to give you something back, when in reality they owe you absolutely nothing. The perfect love is to give just because we want to give. Not forced, but because we want to do it. This is the Agape love compared to the sensual earthly love that does not teach that love is unconditional…
Posted on: Sun, 30 Nov 2014 00:00:50 +0000