Why do your friends like you? --------------------------------------- I enjoyed reading this article as well as summarising it. There is nothing you can do to befriend someone, but these are 15 things that make your closest friends like you unintentionally: 1- Copy them. Mirror your friends. Mimic their behaviour, smile, body language, gestures, facial expressions, vocal tones or choice of words. 2- Spend more time around them. People like things that are familiar to them. 3- Compliment other people in front of them. Whatever you say about other people influences how people see you. 4- Be in a great mood. People unconsciously feel the emotions of those around them. 5- Make friends with their friends. Two people are likely to be closer when they have a common friend. 6- Show that you’re there for them. It could make all the difference in passing difficult times. 7- Don’t be overly effusive.Try complimenting your friends less often or they might question your motives or honesty. 8- Be both warm and competent. If you are capable of doing good things, people will want to cooperate more with you. 9- Reveal your flaws from time to time. Show that you’re not perfect all the time. That makes you more relatable and vulnerable toward the people around you. 10- Emphasize your shared values. People are more attracted to those who are similar to them, or have similar attitudes about the same topics. 11- Casually touch them. subliminal touching.Tapping someone’s back or touching their arm will make someone feel more warmly toward you. 12- Deliver the right kind of smile. people prefer smiles that are genuine much more than those that are merely polite. 13- See the other person how they want to be seen. We all seek confirmations of our views, positive or negative. 14- Tell them a secret. This is one of the best relationship-building techniques. If you increasingly ask deeper questions, you could form a strong friendship in under an hour. 15- Expect good things from people. people treat others in ways that are consistent with their expectations of them. if you think someone is a jerk, you’ll behave toward them in a way that elicits jerky behaviors. Source: businessinsider/research-backed-ways-to-make-people-like-you-2014-7
Posted on: Thu, 15 Jan 2015 21:52:26 +0000
Trending Topics
Recently Viewed Topics
© 2015