ok i had a covo in texting with a friend and she asked me to post the hole thing to get more advice on what to do i just can use names she dont want people to know who it is for it might cloud what they think.and tell me if i was wrong for what i said also. thanks here we go.....her: r u buisy?me:no whats up?her:im upset and just wanted to talk with someone and u r the only one i know who is still up this late.me:ok np whats up y u upset?is everything ok with u and noname?her;no i think im going to break up with him.me; y?u were happy i thought?her;my parents dont like him and he has alot of problems.me;problems u mean faults lol.her;ya u can call them that lol.me; well no offence but thats a dum reason to break up in my eyes dont he make u happy?her;yes but my parents dont like how he is and said i should b with some one with more money.me;but he makes u happy right?i mean not everyone is rich and has faults if everyone was rich and had no faults we all would b married living in a big house with a white picket fence right? her; lol true.me; if u could change some of his faults and if he was willing to change would u stay with him?her;yes but im sick of fighting with my mother she never has anything nice to say to him or about him.me does he hit u or mean to your son?her;hell no hes a good man just got alot of problems or as u call them faults lol me; so u r telling me u r thinking of leaving him because of his problems/faults and your mother?her;in a way me; howlong u guys ben together?her; about a year now.me; ok from a scale of 1% to 100% how happy have u ben in that time?her; about 80% me; ok then y give up?her; like i said sick of my mother being rude to him and never saying anything nice and fighting with her.me; ok well im not one to give advice on a 2 people together since i cant seem to keep one my self lol her; thought u were with someone?me; so did i but i guess my faults were not worth working on or im just worth fighting for.her;oo im sorry me;hey we r talking about u not me dont try to change it around u know i dont like to share my personal life lol her; lol true sorry.me;ok well im going to say this r u ready?her; lol ya go ahead.me;ok parents raise their kids to make the right choices in life and most of all the ones that make them happy and they do this the kids r old enough to b on their own to live their life right?her;yes me;so if u r out of the house and on your own then y u living your life the way your parents want u to? i mean they have their life and u have your own if he makes u happy and u r willing to work through or help if he is willing to change the problems/faults then y live your life their way and not your own. one day your parents will b gone sad to say but true and u will still have many years left y not live your life your way and b happy if your parents realy love u they will come around and still b there for u if they dont well shame on them.from what i know of him hes a good guy.her;he is but there r some manythings going on i dont know what to do or think.me; then do what makes u happy if hes a good guy and didnt cheat on u or hit u and and is good to u and your kids then y give up on him give him a second chance let him show u hes worth it. i mean its your life fight for him dont give up.her; ya true me;i know someone i think she gave up on a good guy because of his problem/faults and her parents instead of fighting for him and giving him a chance to change and help him change she walked away even though he treated her better than all the others did she may regret it down the road but time will tell do u want to in a few years go what if?or what if u fought for him and gave him a chance or could u live with the what if? and maybe miss out on the best thing that may ever happen in your life?her; that was long and took some time lol. me; sorry texting on a old flip phone hehehe. her; get a knew one will save u time lmao. me; haha smart a**. her; :P me; well im not going to tell u what to do but life is full of chances and if u dont take a chance or fight for anything were will your life go and r u going to sit back and go what if all the time because u want to live your life the way your parents and others want or live your life your way and say u took a chance and fought for what u wanted weather it worked out or not?her; its my life just dont know what to think anymore.me; im not going to tell u what to do its your life do what makes u happy not what makes others happy.her; well i got alot of thinking to do now that u said all of that thanks alot lol me; u r welcome sorry u got alot to think about but u did text me and u know i say what think even if u dont want to hear lol her; lol true well thanks for the chat im going to get some sleep and think about stuff so have a good night and be safe out there on the road tonight ok me; never lol i let them worrie about me out here lmao but get some sleep hope it all works out the way u want it not the way others want it ok goodnight ttyl her; ok it will ttyl... ok that was the convo so please share your advice she wants to know what others think also and if i was wrong on something i also said dont b afraid to tell me lol and sorry it was so long she did say she wanted the hole convo posted lol
Posted on: Thu, 31 Oct 2013 10:36:32 +0000
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