These are things people say to the committed MuslimaH who wears the full Islamic Hijab : “Take it easy girl!” “It is not good to do that for yourself!” “you’re still fresh and young, just live your life as other girls do” “so what if you wear a “fashionable Hijab”: long beautiful top on wide stylish trousers?” “so what if you put light make up on?” “so what if you remove this Hijab covering your chest and replace it with “Spanish Hijab”? the most important is that your hair is well covered, isn’t?!” “so what if you talk to boys and be friendly to them? Are they going to eat you or what?!” “so what if you pray all your Salawat together at the end of the day when “you’ll get time”? the most important is that “your Iman is in your heart”!” “so what if you listen to songs? Don’t you read Qur’an in Ramadan? So it’s enough!” “by the way, Islam is the Deen of yosr (easy and simple) and Allah is Most Merciful so don’t be so complicated and extremist! Take it easy!!” Dear sisters, this is how some people talk to committed Muslimat days and nights, everywhere, until some of these Muslimat become so stressed because of the things they tell them! Some of these Muslimat may reconsider their decision of getting closer to Allah, so they go back to to the way they were before commitment, and they would even remove their Hijab (na’udhubillha)!! “people talk” have a big influence on the spirit of Muslimat, not all Alhamdulilah But there are really some Muslimat who are easily influenced by how people look at them So they become more concerned of the opinion of people about them more than their concern about how Allah look at them!! We all know that the Path to Allah is not easy and requires a lot of sacrifice, Jihad of Nafs and especially a lot of patience: patience during trials, patience during tests, patience towards conditions Allah puts us in and PATIENCE towards THE TALK OF PEOPLE… People may criticize a committed Muslimah, they may make fun of her and even take her away from the right Path!! This is something every Muslimah may face! Even Prophets (the best of people) faced mockery of people around them, but they stayed firm on the Deen! Look how Prophet Nuh (alaihi salam) reacted when his people made fun of him :” whenever an assembly of the eminent of his people passed by him, they ridiculed him. He said, If you ridicule us, then we will ridicule you just as you ridicule.” (Quran 11:36) So dear sister, just stay firm on Deen and ignore all the people who criticize you, preserve your patience and in shaa Allah the more you will be patient, the more Allah will reward you...
Posted on: Wed, 22 Oct 2014 06:29:56 +0000
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